Yep, I too fear donating money "for the children" because it might be going for weapons to blow up my family member who is in the service.
It is nice to know there is someone here who understands that not all Muslims are evil people. I tell you, though, I don't want them coming here to live, basically because of cultural considerations. I had a confrontation with one at the horse races. He blamed me because a guy in front of me was taking too long to bet. I said I wasn't with him, and they guy rolled his eyes and said "Sure you're not." I promptly said "Why don't you adress your comments to the gentleman in front of me?" He said "because you are with him." I said, "I am not with him, and you may think that I am going to put up with this c--- because I am a woman, but I tell you, mister, I will not stand for it and when you are ready to apologize, I'll be sitting by the snack stand." The arrogant jerk never apologized.
For all I know, he could have been a Christian, but the differences culturally make too many of the men sexist pigs, which is why I pray their situation at home gets better because I do not want them here.