[Bigg Red]

...she not gay. She's a lesbian.

&&&
She may be gay about being a homosexual. One may be gay about many situations. I refuse to give up the word "gay" by allowing it to describe a personality disorder.

[BikerNYC]

I refuse to give up the word "gay" by allowing it to describe a personality disorder.

You mean to tell me that, at a bar, you'll say to your buddies that you are feeling very gay that they all could join him for a beer?

This I'd like to hear.

[SuziQ]

I refuse to give up the word "gay" by allowing it to describe a personality disorder.

I agree. I use the word homosexual because that his the correct name for the lifestyle choice. We amused hubby's family at our recent reunion by announcing that he and I have had a gay marriage for almost 29 years!