Posted on 08/24/2004 11:28:57 AM PDT by Willie Green
I'd never visited the McKees Rocks striptease bar before, except to interview a bouncer a few years back. The bar, which features separate stages for male and female exotic dancers, had received several complaints from gay male customers who apparently were barred from watching Club Erotica's all-male show.
I told this story to a straight male friend as we entered the noisy, testosterone-filled joint. The complaints didn't faze him.
"That makes sense. Any guy who gets off watching other guys is sick," he said.
His words would have carried more weight if my buddy hadn't enjoyed the evening's entertainment so thoroughly. Several times over the next few hours, he cheered, screamed and damn near had a seizure over several female dancers flirting with each other onstage.
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I was married to a stripper at one time. It's true.
I'm guessing married life with a stripper isn't as great as most guys might fantasize.
Duh.
Allow me the first to say that Mike Seate is a bona fide idiot.
Ah, finally someone who gets it. The whole appeal of the faux lesbian is that women are attractive, men are visually stimulated, and in fantasy it's no threat. In reality, most men would be deeply offended when even the stunning lip-stick lesbian verbalizes that she'd rather fall on a sword that be forced to touch nasty man flesh.
depends on what you consider the goal of the role. If it's procreation, you're correct. If it's simple orgasmic sex it's often superior.
Your rabbi is Daniel Lapin? cooooolll.
OK, I'm back.
I think you've selectively heard him. LIke I've said, "not total nonsense," but the portion of the truth which you've taken, out of any context, is the same portion which fuels Marxist feminism, which did not emerge from a vacuum.
The acceptance of penetration is psychologically an act of submission. Much of modern sexuality is designed to desensitize women to that fact or, in the case of Lesbianism, flee it. But you present that fact in isolation.
Let's put sex back in its context: sex makes babies. Women remain vulnerable while they are pregnant and for whatever period of time that they emphasize nurturing the baby over pursuing their own lives. Even at its most animalistic, human relationships rely on trust. In sexuality, the woman yields power to a man, trusting he will not abuse her. Receiving pleasure through penetration symbolizes this trust. THe fact that it may be initially painful only emphasizes the significance of that trust.
I'll summarize: At first it was cool. I mean I was living the life of a rock-star. Within six months of knowing her, I'd probably done just about everything your average rock star has done on tour. Then reality starts to set in, and you realize that she's not staging these all girl orgies solely for your benefit. After that you realize you're not the sole supplier of penetration in her life either. Then you figure out she's not particularly honest....then it's just a year or so of pure hell as your work your way out of it.
Wow. Very good.
Oh darn, I was hoping to be post 69.
Well, I would have to say that I don't think I'd care exactly why the girl orgies were happening, so long as I was involved.
After that you realize you're not the sole supplier of penetration in her life either.
You mean, not the sole male supplier? I see the problem.
Then you figure out she's not particularly honest....then it's just a year or so of pure hell as your work your way out of it.
I bet, if you could go back, you would do the same thing over again.
We guys are very good at thinking with our units.
Oh, I guess I was.
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DUH.. it's not about accepting the whole homosexual package, it's because most normal (heterosexual) men I know dig girl/girl action.. with good looking girls not butches.. on the other hand I don't know a single normal (heterosexual) female (or male)who gets off watching two guys get it on, no matter how good looking they are..that's just ugly.
And as far as fag hags go, they are usually just very lonely women who want a sensitive man, and are hoping they can change a homo into a straight.
I'll try that line on my wife if she ever catches me in the bathtub with a nubile blond.
Stop right there please. I'm not allowed to drink at work.
That "sport" is a joke!
The story isnt surprising. Many localities - like Newport News, Virginia - have an ordinance baring men from watching male dancers. They allow women to watch female dancers with no problem.
Many men (and I admit to being one of them) dont feel the revulsion about two women making out as we feel about two men making out. We can still fantasize about the women - but not the men, and with the dancers in a bar fantasy is about 80% of the show.
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