Many guys love faux-lesbians, still hate gay men

The Pittsburgh Tribune-Review ^ | Tuesday, August 24, 2004 | Mike Seate

[Melas]

I was married to a stripper at one time. It's true.

[Modernman]

How'd that work out for you?

I'm guessing married life with a stripper isn't as great as most guys might fantasize.

[Badray]

"The guy patrons sexually fantasize about being the third with the two faux lesbians; they have no such fantasy about males.

Duh.

Allow me the first to say that Mike Seate is a bona fide idiot.

[Melas]

This is kinda silly. Guys see two women together and they see themselves inserted into the "Fantasy". In this fantasy ALL the women are gorgeous and BOTH want the man. The "clam bumping" and kissing are all just foreplay for what they really want.......a man. Reality ain't quite as sexy for most men. IMHO

Ah, finally someone who gets it. The whole appeal of the faux lesbian is that women are attractive, men are visually stimulated, and in fantasy it's no threat. In reality, most men would be deeply offended when even the stunning lip-stick lesbian verbalizes that she'd rather fall on a sword that be forced to touch nasty man flesh.

[ASA Vet]

attempt to fake the male role

depends on what you consider the goal of the role. If it's procreation, you're correct. If it's simple orgasmic sex it's often superior.

[dangus]

Your rabbi is Daniel Lapin? cooooolll.

OK, I'm back.

I think you've selectively heard him. LIke I've said, "not total nonsense," but the portion of the truth which you've taken, out of any context, is the same portion which fuels Marxist feminism, which did not emerge from a vacuum.

The acceptance of penetration is psychologically an act of submission. Much of modern sexuality is designed to desensitize women to that fact or, in the case of Lesbianism, flee it. But you present that fact in isolation.

Let's put sex back in its context: sex makes babies. Women remain vulnerable while they are pregnant and for whatever period of time that they emphasize nurturing the baby over pursuing their own lives. Even at its most animalistic, human relationships rely on trust. In sexuality, the woman yields power to a man, trusting he will not abuse her. Receiving pleasure through penetration symbolizes this trust. THe fact that it may be initially painful only emphasizes the significance of that trust.

[Melas]

I'll summarize: At first it was cool. I mean I was living the life of a rock-star. Within six months of knowing her, I'd probably done just about everything your average rock star has done on tour. Then reality starts to set in, and you realize that she's not staging these all girl orgies solely for your benefit. After that you realize you're not the sole supplier of penetration in her life either. Then you figure out she's not particularly honest....then it's just a year or so of pure hell as your work your way out of it.

[TheBigB]

This brand-new pic of Olympians Kerri Walsh and Misty May just seems to fit here. :)

[JTHomes]

Wow. Very good.

[JTHomes]

Oh darn, I was hoping to be post 69.

[Modernman]

Then reality starts to set in, and you realize that she's not staging these all girl orgies solely for your benefit.

Well, I would have to say that I don't think I'd care exactly why the girl orgies were happening, so long as I was involved.

After that you realize you're not the sole supplier of penetration in her life either.

You mean, not the sole male supplier? I see the problem.

Then you figure out she's not particularly honest....then it's just a year or so of pure hell as your work your way out of it.

I bet, if you could go back, you would do the same thing over again.

We guys are very good at thinking with our units.

[JTHomes]

Oh, I guess I was.

[spectre]

Get out of town....LOL.

sw

[Xenalyte]

Dude, you're supposed to ping me when you post my pic. ;)

For the record, neither of these is what it seems . . . in the first one, we are legitimately trying to get clean, and in the second one I'm apparently dead and Gabby's trying to wake me up.

[Xenalyte]

Of the few strippers I have ever known, every one had a boyfriend or husband.

Of the more than a few strippers I know, every one has had a boyfriend or husband, and the majority have at least one child. They have also all had lesbian experiences. Every one.

[Awestruck]

DUH.. it's not about accepting the whole homosexual package, it's because most normal (heterosexual) men I know dig girl/girl action.. with good looking girls not butches.. on the other hand I don't know a single normal (heterosexual) female (or male)who gets off watching two guys get it on, no matter how good looking they are..that's just ugly.
And as far as fag hags go, they are usually just very lonely women who want a sensitive man, and are hoping they can change a homo into a straight.

[Modernman]

in the first one, we are legitimately trying to get clean

I'll try that line on my wife if she ever catches me in the bathtub with a nubile blond.

[Shryke]

They have also all had lesbian experiences. Every one.

Stop right there please. I'm not allowed to drink at work.

[biblewonk]

That "sport" is a joke!

[R. Scott]

The story isn’t surprising. Many localities - like Newport News, Virginia - have an ordinance baring men from watching male dancers. They allow women to watch female dancers with no problem.
Many men (and I admit to being one of them) don’t feel the revulsion about two women making out as we feel about two men making out. We can still fantasize about the women - but not the men, and with the dancers in a bar fantasy is about 80% of the show.