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Will teens, young adults embrace same-sex ‘marriage’?
BP News ^ | 3-5-04 | Michael Foust

Posted on 03/08/2004 9:06:07 AM PST by truthandlife

If same-sex “marriage” is legalized nationwide in America, as some believe it will be, then the liberal views of teenagers and young adults are sure to play a large role.

This view is widespread among same-sex “marriage” supporters, who constantly cite polls showing what they claim are America’s changing attitudes. Teens, they say, are embracing homosexual “marriage.”

Deb Price, who works for The Detroit News, wrote a column last year about two high school students, Amanda Blair and Stephanie Haaser, who fought to change their respective schools’ attitudes on homosexuality. Price, a homosexual, believes same-sex “marriage” may be inevitable.

“The gay-friendly generation of Blair and Haaser will eventually take control of the most powerful jobs in the corporate, political and educational worlds,” she wrote.

Others agree.

Recently, during a protest against marriage laws in Illinois, a woman in Chicago told the local newspaper: “In 100 years, history books will look back on what's happening right now with judgment.”

Conservatives in recent years have been emboldened by polls showing that teenagers are more pro-life than their parents. But, if the polls are right, those same teens also are more likely to embrace same-sex “marriage.” Although polls differ, nearly all of them show that teens are at least 10 percentage points more likely to embrace changing the definition of marriage.

Consider:

-- A December New York Times poll showed that Americans opposed same-sex “marriage” by a margin of 61-34 percent. But the results among 18-29-years-olds were just the opposite -- 56 percent supportive, 40 percent opposed.

-- A February Newsweek poll showed that 47 percent of Americans favored either same-sex “marriage” or civil unions (23 percent marriage, 24 percent civil unions). But 58 percent of 18-29-year-olds favored some form of recognition (39 percent marriage, 19 percent civil unions).

The million-dollar question is this: Will those same teenagers and young adults stick with those beliefs?

“[O]ne would have to question, ‘Well, when they grow up and get older will they be like today’s older people, or will they carry with them these attitudes throughout their lives?’” political analyst Michael Barone told Baptist Press. “I could make a plausible argument for either position. I don’t know which one is right.”

The generation gap has been influenced by everything from television to academia to parenting, leaders say.

“I attribute it to the unrelenting pro-homosexual propaganda that they’ve grown up with,” said Peter Sprigg, director of the Family Research Council's Center for Marriage and Family Studies. “I think that although the majority of Americans overall still oppose homosexual marriage and oppose homosexuality, there is an overwhelming pro-homosexual bias in some of our major cultural institutions, such as academia, such as the news media and particularly the entertainment media, which is very influential with young people.

“I think we have a whole generation that has been raised on pro-homosexual mythology.”

Sprigg says higher education has been a big culprit, with public schools playing a smaller role. He notes that polls show that those with a college education are more likely to support same-sex “marriage.”

“That’s not because they’re more intelligent,” he said. “It’s because they’ve been subjected to this kind of teaching.”

Young people also have been raised on MTV, which promotes homosexuality through such programs as the “Real World,” and network television, which increasingly has added homosexual characters to its programming in recent years.

“The gay character is always depicted as the wisest, the funniest, the best dressed, the most stylish, the most reasonable,” Sprigg said. “That’s a very subtle but effective form of propaganda, I believe.”

In addition to television and academia, the breakdown of the family also has played a large role in shaping the attitudes of teens and young adults, some say.

“Since the late 1960s there has been an increasingly smaller percentage of parents rearing children from a uniquely biblical perspective,” said Richard Ross, professor of student ministries at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary and spokesperson for the abstinence-focused True Love Waits program for teenagers.

“Until this present generation of teenagers came on the scene, we were seeing -- reflected in each succeeding group of teenagers -- a smaller percentage embracing biblical values. Interestingly among teenagers in 2004, on some measures we are seeing teenagers more conservative than their parents.”

But same-sex “marriage” is an exception. Ross quoted a yet-to-be-published study by University of North Carolina researchers showing that teens have what he termed an “absolute resistance” to passing “judgment on any faith, philosophy or lifestyle.”

“We have trained the teenagers to believe that truth is relative and to believe we must be tolerant to all,” he said. “And that teaching has been uniformly successful.”

Sprigg called the current homosexual movement the “culmination” of the sexual revolution that began in the mid-20th century that taught “you should be able to have sex with anybody you want, whenever you want.”

Many people become more conservative when they marry and have children Sprigg said, adding that that could happen to the younger generation.

“[I]f they had a child in first grade and suddenly discovered their child was being taught about homosexuality in their first-grade public school classroom, I think it would give them pause, and they would say, ‘Wait a second, this is going too far,’” he said.

Ross isn’t so optimistic.

“I think instruction in tolerance has been so pervasive that teenagers will likely carry this perspective into adulthood unless there is very quick and very clear teaching in an opposite direction,” he said. “I am not hopeful, though, that this will take place. The vast majority of faithful parents in the church have abdicated Christian instruction to the church. Parents have come to believe that faithfully taxiing teenagers to and from the church fulfills their responsibility. This grieves me because parents have the power to shape lifetime values within their teenagers.”

One reason teens and young adults have different views, Sprigg said, is because they confuse what he believes are two very different issues. One concerns the victimization of homosexuals, the other the definition of marriage.

“They don’t want to see [homosexuals] harassed and [be] the victims of violence,” he said. “We agree with that.... [But] I think it is possible to separate the marriage issue from other concerns. Just because you’re upset that some homosexuals are the victims of hate crimes doesn’t mean that you have to grant same-sex marriage rights. It just doesn’t logically follow.”


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KEYWORDS: homosexual; homosexualagenda; homosexuals; marriage; prisoners; samesex; samesexmarriage; teens
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Comment #41 Removed by Moderator

To: tsomer
I have many gay friends, some very close to me.

How close is very close?

42 posted on 03/08/2004 10:55:15 AM PST by JesseHousman (Execute Mumia Abu-Jamal)
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To: Betaille
pugmehon
Since Mar 4, 2004
43 posted on 03/08/2004 10:56:47 AM PST by JesseHousman (Execute Mumia Abu-Jamal)
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To: Celtjew Libertarian
...not to mention hairdresser for my wife, both mothers, and my (step-)daughter. A year later, he was godfather for my son.

Spoken like a true Libertarian.

Yuck!

44 posted on 03/08/2004 10:58:13 AM PST by JesseHousman (Execute Mumia Abu-Jamal)
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To: JesseHousman
Celtjew Libertarian
Since Nov 28, 2000

And I agree with pugmehon on this.
45 posted on 03/08/2004 10:58:57 AM PST by Celtjew Libertarian (Shake Hands with the Serpent: Poetry by Charles Lipsig aka Celtjew http://books.lulu.com/lipsig)
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To: JesseHousman
Spoken like a true Libertarian.

Why, thank you... Though, you'll get a lot of libertarians disagreeing with you on that, when you hit foreign and defense policy.

46 posted on 03/08/2004 10:59:52 AM PST by Celtjew Libertarian (Shake Hands with the Serpent: Poetry by Charles Lipsig aka Celtjew http://books.lulu.com/lipsig)
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To: truthandlife
....I'm considering starting a ping list called "my generation is full of idiots"...

I live in a fairly conservative area of VA, but I can still find a few people my age who think Gay marriage is a great thing.....I had the misfortune of going out on a date with one of them...somehow much to my headache...the conversation turned to politics and it just went downhill from there....
47 posted on 03/08/2004 11:00:17 AM PST by Blue Scourge (Off I go into the Wild Blue Yonder...)
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To: Celtjew Libertarian
I'd also say being married has made me more pro-gay-marriage...

You just keep prattling like a pro-homosexual agendist.

Surely there is a website for sycophants.

48 posted on 03/08/2004 11:00:21 AM PST by JesseHousman (Execute Mumia Abu-Jamal)
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To: Celtjew Libertarian
And I agree with pugmehon on this.

Somehow I guessed as much. I must be psychic and voila!(a little French lingo here to show my lack of prejudice against frogs and other genders)it demonstrates your support of an agenda by homosexuals for America.

49 posted on 03/08/2004 11:05:29 AM PST by JesseHousman (Execute Mumia Abu-Jamal)
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To: JesseHousman
You just keep prattling like a pro-homosexual agendist.

Problem is, the Dems don't want me, because I oppose gun control, support Bush's tax cuts, and support Bush's foreign and defense policy. The Libertarians don't want me, because I believe in God, support Bush's foreign and defense policy, and don't demand that everything be changed overnight.

That kinda leaves Republican sites as my only option. What's more, most Republicans don't try to run me off for not toeing the GOP line -- unlike most Democrats and a surprising amount of LPers.

50 posted on 03/08/2004 11:06:18 AM PST by Celtjew Libertarian (Shake Hands with the Serpent: Poetry by Charles Lipsig aka Celtjew http://books.lulu.com/lipsig)
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To: JesseHousman
No need to throw in French on my account. I have no love lost for the surrender monkeys either.
51 posted on 03/08/2004 11:08:27 AM PST by Celtjew Libertarian (Shake Hands with the Serpent: Poetry by Charles Lipsig aka Celtjew http://books.lulu.com/lipsig)
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To: Celtjew Libertarian
Were you and your college roommates making what you planned to be a life-time commitment? That's what I mean by long-term.

No, but my best friend, who is female, and I have vowed to grow old together. So, are we married, according to you? I also plan on taking care of my dog for her entire life. Can she be included? Oh, and my relationship with my brother is also life long? Are we also married?

53 posted on 03/08/2004 11:13:38 AM PST by rintense
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To: truthandlife
Young people dont understand the full gravity of what marriage and family is about. I certainly was that way when younger.

Having children wakes you up to the responsibility of carying civilization to the next generation. When you mature, you are less likely to be bamboozled then by specious arguments about marriage being about 2 people who have sex with each-other.
55 posted on 03/08/2004 11:15:04 AM PST by WOSG (http://freedomstruth.blogspot.com)
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To: momfirst
"For a little perspective, in my teen years there was a lot of hoopla about gay rights and I had a lot of gay friends - thusly I was very pro-gay rights. I am now 31, have three children of my own, and while I'm "tolerant", I do agree that this "marriage" thing has gone too far. I've always had the thought that it's their business, keep it in their house, don't push it on me, and I'm fine with it. This is pushing it on me and mine - invading my house. Bottom line, even though I was raised in the Northwest liberal arena, I am strongly against these "marriages" and have been led to re-think the whole acceptance issue. Does that make sense? There is hope..."

It makes a lot of sense. see my previous reply. I've evolved the same way. I am a tolerant traditionalist, but the rights of homosexuals end when it intrudes on our ability to raise the next generation, and redefining marriage will do harm to children. I dont think this is about an 'older' generation, so much about parents who have lived enought real life to understand that marriage and family should be taken more seriously than the elitists in our culture want us to.

56 posted on 03/08/2004 11:20:33 AM PST by WOSG (http://freedomstruth.blogspot.com)
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To: Celtjew Libertarian
"That kinda leaves Republican sites as my only option. What's more, most Republicans don't try to run me off for not toeing the GOP line -- unlike most Democrats and a surprising amount of LPers."

I'd have to say, for being 'principled' mind-bigots, the LPers are the worst. Step out of line and you are called a "Statist".

Dems and GOPers dont mind your "whacky" ideas, so long as you vote for 'em.

Me? I'm a Reagan Republican. Libertarianism was a teenage fling for me, but I grew up!!



58 posted on 03/08/2004 11:23:38 AM PST by WOSG (http://freedomstruth.blogspot.com)
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To: truthandlife
[ Will teens, young adults embrace same-sex ‘marriage’? ]

The cultural legality could concievably embrace teens marrying their "PETS"... or "Woobyies even".. down the line...

Our judges have become "SIT DOWN COMICS"..
and the courts have become comedy central..

Which would a pre-requiste to a fully orbed and robed Gomorrah..

59 posted on 03/08/2004 11:26:20 AM PST by hosepipe
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To: rintense
No, but my best friend, who is female, and I have vowed to grow old together. So, are we married, according to you?

Are you sharing a household? If so, according to common-law in at least some states, you are. Otherwise, no.

I also plan on taking care of my dog for her entire life. Can she be included?

No. A dog is not capable of giving consent. Oh, and my relationship with my brother is also life long? Are we also married?

Sanguine relationships are not considered consensual.

60 posted on 03/08/2004 11:26:37 AM PST by Celtjew Libertarian (Shake Hands with the Serpent: Poetry by Charles Lipsig aka Celtjew http://books.lulu.com/lipsig)
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