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Here's hopin' there are still a few insane ones out there, then.

And once you've twisted the insane ones into your version of domestic "saneness", you'll get bored, start complaining that you don't go out as much anymore, drink as much, dance as much (gee, could it be that keeping a roof over the head, maintaining that property, working to pay for the life/homeowners/car insurance policies, spending time with the kids and taking them to scouts, etc. is cutting into going out time?) start having headaches every night, never say thankyou for the massages he gives you, compliments he drops, flowers he brings you all the time, and so you'll start something with the UPS guy - the one who bangs every chick he can.

It's an ancient song and dance, which has varied little over the millenia.

Popular culture paints a picture that it is the men who are out cheating, and yet the truth is that if they are cheating with someone it's someone who themself is cheating. Cheating wives. Divorcing wives.

Rather than continue to be serially cuckolded, doesn't it make sense for a man to himself become a rogue male?

The answer is yes. Domestic bliss is a fool's paradise.

And I apologize if this sounds bitter. It is...and yet isn't. A door closes, many many windows open, etc...

Feast!

Um...I don't drink or party NOW, so I doubt I'm gonna miss that much. As for the rest of your post...I'm gonna just ignore it rather than getting ticked off at your judgement of me. You don't know me, and you obviously have a very jaded view of women if you're convinced we're all exactly like that.

And truthfully, I think I'm a good deal happier than you are.

Rather than continue to be serially cuckolded, doesn't it make sense for a man to himself become a rogue male?

Shaft or be shafted, huh? Wow, what a wonderful world you live in ... NOT!.

Believe it or not, if you marry a girl with the morals of a horny rabbit when she's dating, she'll still have the morals of a horny rabbit after the wedding. Ditto for girls marrying amoral guys.

Nobody's ever promiscuously fornicated themselves to lasting happiness. Those rules are in that Book for a reason.

"Domestic bliss" is a different concept for each person, and only achievable if both parties are completely honest about their expectations, have mutual respect for each other, and common interests. If these things aren't determined before you commit, then you are indeed screwed. It is not adult behavior to whine over what you did before you married-if you weren't ready for those responsibilities, then you should have stayed single until (or if ever) you were. And surely you should each tell the other what will NOT be tolerated-adultery, out all night, physical violence, etc. If the other person can't live with that , then you are not compatible, and people do NOT change radically. But the majority of women are not "attractive pigs" lying in wait to lure a man to marriage with sex and lies, proceed to pound him like bread dough into the desired image of her personal prince charming, then metamorphose into a raging bitch wielding a family lawyer in one hand and an empty purse in the other. I'm so very sorry you have been shat upon and it has made you bitter, but you are wrong and mysoginistic in your opinion of most women.