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Longing for God: Mother Teresa's Letters Reveal Isolation, Doubts.
Catholic News Service ^ | 3/4/02 | Cindy Wooden

Posted on 03/04/2002 5:34:20 PM PST by marshmallow

VATICAN CITY (CNS) -- As Missionaries of Charity Father Brian Kolodiejchuk pores over the letters of Mother Teresa of Calcutta and the reports of her spiritual directors, he is increasingly struck by the enormous difficulty of all she accomplished.

The priest, who is in charge of preparing material for Mother Teresa's beatification, is not surprised by the effort it took to open houses for the dying, the sick and the homeless.

The surprising aspect is how much she did despite feeling for years that God had abandoned her, he said.

Her letters to her spiritual directors over the years are filled with references to "interior darkness," to feeling unloved by God and even to the temptation to doubt that God exists.

She wrote to her spiritual director in a 1959-60 spiritual diary, "In my soul, I feel just the terrible pain of loss, of God not wanting me, of God not being God, of God not really existing."

In another letter she wrote that she wanted to love God "like he has not been loved," and yet she felt her love was not reciprocated.

In the context of Mother Teresa's life, the thoughts are not heresy, but signs of holiness, Father Kolodiejchuk said in a late-February interview. Mother Teresa was convinced God existed and had a plan for her life, even if she did not feel his presence, the priest said.

"Everyone wants to share, to talk about things, to be encouraged by others," he said, but Mother Teresa, "hurting on the inside, kept smiling, kept working, kept being joyful."

In a 1961 letter to the Missionaries of Charity, she wrote, "Without suffering our work would just be social work. ... All the desolation of poor people must be redeemed and we must share in it."

Father Kolodiejchuk, a 45-year-old Canadian ordained in the Ukrainian-Byzantine rite, was among the first members of the Missionaries of Charity Fathers. Members of Mother Teresa's order often heard her refer to Sept. 10, 1946, as "Inspiration Day," when on a train in India she experienced a call to live and work with the poor.

Mother Teresa had described the call as "an order, a duty, an absolute certainty" that she must leave the Sisters of Loreto and move into the slums of Calcutta to devote herself completely to the poor.

"We thought that in some way, which she never explained, she experienced Jesus' call," Father Kolodiejchuk said.

But now, from reading her correspondence with her spiritual director, he said, it is clear she experienced what theologians call an "interior imaginative locution" -- she distinctly heard a voice in her head tell her what to do.

"And it continued for some months," he said.

"The call was so direct that she knew it was the right thing despite this darkness she experienced for many years, at least until the 1970s," the priest said.

At one point, a former archbishop of Calcutta wanted to share some of her letters with a struggling founder of another religious congregation, Father Kolodiejchuk said.

Mother Teresa begged him not to and asked that all her letters be destroyed. Father Kolodiejchuk said she told the archbishop, "When people know about the beginning, they will think more about me and less about Jesus."

Does Father Kolodiejchuk worry that he is betraying her wishes by publicizing the information? "I think her perspective is very different now," Father Kolodiejchuk answered.

Several of the letters and diary entries were published last year in the "Journal of Theological Reflection" of the Jesuit-run Vidyajyoti School of Theology in New Delhi. The investigations into her faith life are not idle prying, the priest said. Beatification and canonization are recognitions not of a person's life work -- which is obviously praiseworthy in Mother Teresa's case -- but of holiness.

While some people may be surprised or even shocked by Mother Teresa's spiritual struggles, he said he hopes it also will help them come to "a fuller and deeper appreciation of holiness, which Mother Teresa lived in a way both simple and profound: she took what Jesus gave with a smile and stayed faithful even in the smallest things."

The feeling that God is far away or even nonexistent is a common spiritual experience, he said. "Maybe we won't have the same intensity of experiences, but most of what she did was very ordinary -- it just became extraordinary when it was all put together," Father Kolodiejchuk said.

Mother Teresa died in Calcutta in September 1997.

In 1999, Pope John Paul II waived the rule requiring a five-year wait before a beatification process can begin.

Although he works on the cause from 8 a.m. to 7 p.m. daily, Father Kolodiejchuk said he believes it will be "several months" before the Vatican formally recognizes that Mother Teresa heroically lived the Christian virtues and declares her venerable.

He said work also is underway on preparing a report on the potential miracle needed for beatification: the 1998 cure of an Indian woman who had a huge, unidentified growth in her abdomen.

"People do say, 'Do it faster,'" the priest said. But the official process takes time, he said. "It is designed to discern the sense of the people of God and the verification of the miracle is God's confirmation of that."


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To: newblood
I know where you are going with this. You are entitled to your beliefs but this isn't the thread for this. Take it elsewhere.
21 posted on 03/04/2002 7:50:21 PM PST by Canticle_of_Deborah
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To: marshmallow
What a terrific post! If God were Santa Claus, going down a checklist of wishes and granting them to each believer according to his/her sincerity, then the Almighty would be nothing...

The God Who loves us, and died for us, meets us in the darkest hours of our lives with gifts of hope, comfort, reconciliation and peace.

Giving up the "God as Santa Claus" idea is one of the steps to growing in Him...Mother Teresa has been an inspiration to me, and her inner spiritual emptiness and darkness were a preparation, to my thinking, for the will of God to work through her...

22 posted on 03/04/2002 7:50:42 PM PST by Judith Anne
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To: marshmallow
These interior trials and episodes of spiritual dryness are experiences of all the great mystics. St. Theresa of Avila comes immediately to mind and wrote extensively about this in her many works.
23 posted on 03/04/2002 7:53:11 PM PST by Canticle_of_Deborah
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To: goldenstategirl
Yes, the Dark Night of the Soul...
24 posted on 03/04/2002 7:56:44 PM PST by Judith Anne
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To: Judith Anne
Yes! Did you read the book by St.John of the Cross? I did but I thought it was a very difficult read. One of those books that you have to read a couple of pages then stop and think about it for a while. I was persistent though and finally finished it two years later!
25 posted on 03/04/2002 8:02:03 PM PST by Canticle_of_Deborah
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To: kezekiel
I've been through some rough times myself and there is a certain Bible verse that always comes to mind when I feel I am at my lowest point. It refers to Wisdom and how "in fire gold is tested". I'm looking through Proverbs, Wisdom, and Sirach right now but I can't find it. I think it's in Sirach. I wanted to share it with you:( I'll post it if I find it.
26 posted on 03/04/2002 8:10:48 PM PST by Canticle_of_Deborah
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To: earplug
Bill Gates funds a lot of death, too. He's big on population control. He gives money to prevent the very thing that made his prosperity possible.
27 posted on 03/04/2002 8:12:43 PM PST by nickcarraway
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To: goldenstategirl
"I counsel you to buy from Me gold refined in the fire, that you may be rich; and white garments, that you may be clothed, that the shame of your nakedness may not be revealed; and anoint your eyes with eye salve that you may see. As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten. Rev. 3:18-19)
28 posted on 03/04/2002 8:24:14 PM PST by WVNan
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To: goldenstategirl
I didn't get through that book, you're to be commended. What happened to me was that I sort of lived through such a "night" and spent a lot of time as a retreatant at a Trappist monastery...the writings of the great mystics were at my disposal, and to my surprise, I saw my very own struggles illuminated by theirs...it didn't make it any easier, and I am certainly no great mystic, but at times, there were friends in the darkness...
29 posted on 03/04/2002 8:24:21 PM PST by Judith Anne
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To: earplug
How many hospitals and treatment centers for the prevention of disease did Mother Teresa fund? How many more lives will Bill Gates save from his funded treatment programs. We will never hear of a Saint Gates!

To quote from the article: "Beatification and canonization are recognitions not of a person's life work -- which is obviously praiseworthy in Mother Teresa's case -- but of holiness."

30 posted on 03/04/2002 8:24:34 PM PST by Atticus
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To: marshmallow
For I am already being poured out like a libation, and the time of my departure is at hand. I have competed well; I have finished the race; I have kept the faith. From now on the crown of righteousness awaits me, which the Lord, the just judge, will award to me on that day, and not only to me, but to all who have longed for his appearance.

-Timothy Chapter 4, 6-8

32 posted on 03/04/2002 8:42:34 PM PST by Vince Ferrer
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To: newblood
She explained herself perfectly well. If this isn't in your frame of reference, don't worry about it.
33 posted on 03/04/2002 8:43:03 PM PST by Judith Anne
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To: WVNan
Okay that's good too, but it wasn't in Revelation. I'm still looking! BTW, I'm sure you all know this already, but when gold is heated the impurities (dross) separate and come to the surface to be skimmed away, leaving only the purest gold, hence, the spiritual comparison. But you knew that:) Just a bit of trivia;)
34 posted on 03/04/2002 8:46:11 PM PST by Canticle_of_Deborah
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To: Judith Anne
Ooohh Trappists! Thomas Merton.... I haven't read him yet but he's on my list!
35 posted on 03/04/2002 8:49:38 PM PST by Canticle_of_Deborah
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To: newblood
You know exactly what I am talking about and I'm not buying the 'playing dumb'. If by some small chance you really don't know, then just forget about it.
36 posted on 03/04/2002 8:52:00 PM PST by Canticle_of_Deborah
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To: marshmallow
"People do say, 'Do it faster,'" the priest said. But the official process takes time, he said. "It is designed to discern the sense of the people of God and the verification of the miracle is God's confirmation of that."

I second the request...DO IT FASTER! The woman deserves all, and so much more!!!

37 posted on 03/04/2002 8:55:44 PM PST by NordP
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To: goldenstategirl
Well, I will say that the Trappists are very practical about spiritual matters, and encourage keeping the hours of prayer throughout the day, it's too big an experience to summarize in a post, but Thomas Merton was the least of it. For some reason, I couldn't identify with him and his struggles, as much as with some others...

Evelyn Underhill wrote a terrific book called "Mysticism" which explores the spiritual journey in all its aspects..it was a map through unfamiliar territory, for me; the journey doesn't end in this life, though, I'm convinced. Underhill's book was from a largely Catholic (though not exclusive) perspective.

38 posted on 03/04/2002 8:58:08 PM PST by Judith Anne
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To: nickcarraway
Okay, so Bill Gates is wealthy - I for one, am sick and tired of people getting upset about that as a root cause.

He made money - who's to say he's a horrible human being?

This class warfare thing is an unsightly blight against the "doers" of the world. We should be glad that we live in a country where this is possible, and be happy for another that has done well.

Who cares what he does with that money. That's between him and God. He has to live with his choices - another great gift from the Almighty - the gift of FREE WILL.

39 posted on 03/04/2002 9:00:40 PM PST by NordP
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To: Judith Anne
"Giving up the "God as Santa Claus" idea is one of the steps to growing in Him...Mother Teresa has been an inspiration to me, and her inner spiritual emptiness and darkness were a preparation, to my thinking, for the will of God to work through her..."

I totally disagree. You must think of Santa Claus as only the giver of material gifts. To me, Santa Claus, just like God, is the bearer of the gift of understanding that unconditional giving and giving to all is the best that a human can do...a living example to us all, and in that way VERY Godlike.

40 posted on 03/04/2002 9:05:40 PM PST by NordP
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