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Tonight, I am separated, and now I'm truly alone.
New Horizon | 02/27/2002 | New Horizon

Posted on 02/27/2002 4:33:04 PM PST by New Horizon

I posted a thread last night entitled:

Tonight, I am officially separated.

I am frightened, I have no family, I am alone...I have nobody but you guys to turn to. I received much valuable advice from fellow FReepers, which I expected. Why else would I post that type of "vanity"?

For some reason, my thread was pulled. Thank God I can salvage at least some of the intelligent replies were via FReepMail. Unfortunately, I never made it through the entire thread. I believe it was a good thread, for more than just my own selfish interests.

If I was rich (which is unlikely now) I would contribute to a forum like this. I'm not. I won't be.

If this thread is pulled, consider it my "opus".


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To: one_particular_harbour
I have plenty of pride...just nobody to get good advise from. I'm a bit worried about my future, my kids. That's why I posted this. Twice.

Why be an asshole? I appreciate FReeper advice. Why not go to another thread?

61 posted on 02/27/2002 5:34:57 PM PST by New Horizon
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To: Bobby777
you got fr mail
62 posted on 02/27/2002 5:35:49 PM PST by RedBloodedAmerican
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To: New Horizon
Hi New Horizon, you are not alone in feeling that your situation can't ever be fixed. But as lonely and difficult as it is right now, it is my experience that these times happen when we're NOT paying attentin to our true path. And every time, after getting past the terrible stuff, I look back and realize that the change had been for my own good. Every single time. Just remember you have FReeper friends here and you can always have "company." Just don't sit in front of your computer so long that you grow another chin or stomach! :) Take care New Horizon.
64 posted on 02/27/2002 5:36:51 PM PST by Libertina
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To: Focault's Pendulum
Then be extremly careful i've heard the Brazilians are nuts.
65 posted on 02/27/2002 5:36:58 PM PST by Gore_ War_ Vet
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To: New Horizon
See post 11?

You want advice?

Shut off your computer...

No wait.

Get rid of your computer and do what it takes to be reconciled. Was she unfaithful to you? (dont answer that publicly). If not; make the attempt.

But how many people are on here more than with their families?

67 posted on 02/27/2002 5:40:25 PM PST by RedBloodedAmerican
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To: one_particular_harbour
,,, maybe your comments are predictable, coming from a lawyer.
68 posted on 02/27/2002 5:42:41 PM PST by shaggy eel
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To: one_particular_harbour
Wait till he finds out how miserable she made him these past few years and how glad he is she is gone. His pity party will turn to rage. That's one of the reasons he needs to be getting profesional counseling. The rage is likely to turn to depression later.
69 posted on 02/27/2002 5:42:51 PM PST by VRWC_minion
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To: New Horizon
I'll give you the best piece of advice I've ever gotten. Not sure how well it applies here, it was originally given to me in relation to dirtbike riding, but I've found it very useful in various random circumstances having seemingly no relationship to dirtbikes:
When in doubt, accelerate, it might not solve the problem but it will end the suspense.

Other than that hang in there, stay tough. Get a pet, pets are good.

72 posted on 02/27/2002 5:43:55 PM PST by discostu
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To: one_particular_harbour
Self respect yes...pride?
73 posted on 02/27/2002 5:43:59 PM PST by f.Christian
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To: RedBloodedAmerican
got it ... thanks ...

Bobby

http://www.SufferingMessiah.Com/
74 posted on 02/27/2002 5:45:30 PM PST by Bobby777
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To: New Horizon
Which one of you was nuts enough to let four mutts have the run of the house? The first thing you should do is call the SPCA and get rid of those poopers. Man, how could anyone live like that for five years?
75 posted on 02/27/2002 5:46:04 PM PST by Palladin
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To: New Horizon
Are you very sure the thread was pulled? I just did a self-search, found my reply and clicked on the thread, and it came right up. It had 286 replies on it, some posted today. Take another look and see if it comes up for you too.
76 posted on 02/27/2002 5:46:26 PM PST by truthkeeper
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To: New Horizon
QUOTE:"I am frightened, I have no family, I am alone...I have nobody but you guys to turn to.

Is this thread for real?? If so, maybe your wife was frustrated with your insecurity. A spouse needs a partner to lean on. A man the way you describe yourself is unappealing to some women.

If you really need guidance, find a successful church and get help from a mature, married pastor.

77 posted on 02/27/2002 5:46:44 PM PST by Dr. Scarpetta
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To: VRWC_minion
. Fourth, make appointment with psychiatrist. Fifth if you have the funds hire a private investigator to discover your wifes lover (it'll ease your conscience).

I think I would leave those go.

79 posted on 02/27/2002 5:47:13 PM PST by MileHi
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