[New Horizon]

I have plenty of pride...just nobody to get good advise from. I'm a bit worried about my future, my kids. That's why I posted this. Twice.

Why be an asshole? I appreciate FReeper advice. Why not go to another thread?

[RedBloodedAmerican]

See post 11?

You want advice?

Shut off your computer...

No wait.

Get rid of your computer and do what it takes to be reconciled. Was she unfaithful to you? (dont answer that publicly). If not; make the attempt.

But how many people are on here more than with their families?

[jmp702]

New Horizon- You've received a multitude of sympathy, suggestions and advice. The fact remains, however, that you are allowing yourself to tread in self-pity. That ain't gonna make it better, man. If a few of these posts telling you to buck up and move out of the pity mode make you angry, then good. Anger is a healthly response and will motivate you to action. Get mad. Tell yourself you will not be defeated by this. Transfer the pain to a plan of action for your life. Good luck. You will make it.