For the record, my ( late ) first wife was put in a wheelchair at age sixteen by a couple of drunk sailors in a Cadillac- I'm no friend of impaired drivers- but!
I don't like their lack of honesty- IMHO, they cloak themselves behind "motherhood & protecting our children" while actually being about vengance, and controling others. I just wish they'd be more forthright- I understand vengance quite well.