Posted on 12/04/2001 4:20:54 PM PST by PJ-Comix
The middle school student who police say had an 18-month affair with his teacher testified at her trial Monday that he lived a teenage fantasy.
The teen said Beth Friedman, 43, seduced him by plying him with lavish gifts -- trips, money, clothes, jewelry, a car and drugs -- and even did his homework for him.
The affair was a fantasy, Friedman's lawyer countered, but one that existed purely in the teen's imagination.
Friedman is charged with indecent assault, unlawful sexual activity with a minor and contributing to the delinquency of a minor. She faces 76 years in prison if convicted.
``She was the teacher everybody wanted because she let you do whatever you wanted in her class,'' the teen, now 19 and working as a roofer, testified in the first day of Friedman's trial. ``I could do stuff other people would get in trouble for, and she would just look the other way and pretend she didn't notice. So I started to sit at her desk just to see what would happen, and she just let me sit there all the time.''
The teen, who was 14 when he met Friedman, testified that he used drugs, his grades in school were ``horrible,'' and he was often in trouble for fighting. He said his friendship with Friedman grew as she began giving him rides home from school, and eventually became friends with his mother, the teen testified.
He would eat lunch with Friedman and another teacher in their room because he was new to Silver Lakes Middle School and couldn't get along with other kids in the cafeteria.
``They ordered pizza and Chinese food,'' the teen testified. ``I'd come back bragging to the other kids `I had Chinese food for lunch, what did you have?' ''
She started doing his school work, and getting permission from other teachers to let him sit in her room all day.
``She'd take my work from me and do it. Sometimes I didn't even know it was done. I'd just get a grade back,'' he said.
Friedman started taking him and his younger brother to a video arcade, then to movies and out to dinner.
``I'd page her and say: `Me and my friends are hungry,' and she'd come take us out to eat,'' he said. ``But then it got too expensive so she'd just take me and one friend out.''
Eventually, the teen's brother, mother and mother's boyfriend moved into Friedman's Hollywood condo. She took the boy on trips to Busch Gardens, Universal Studios and the Keys, with her and the teen sleeping in one bed and a friend of his or his brother sleeping in another, he said.
On one of those trips, he said, e Friedman performed a sex act on him while his brother slept. On the way home in the car, he said ]she performed another.
When he was 15, he wanted a car.
``She said: `If you have sex with me I'll buy you a car,' '' said the teen, who chewed gum and played with a rubber band on the witness stand. ``So I did, and she did.''
The teen said Friedman gave him money to buy drugs, introduced him to cocaine and would challenge him to contests to see who could take the most Xanax without falling asleep. She also bought him lavish gifts and let him drive her car and her father's Rolls-Royce, he said.
``Whatever I wanted, she got it for me,'' he said.
But Friedman's lawyer, David Bogenschutz, peppered the boy with questions about his story, particularly the teen's assertion that the affair ended after Friedman offered him $25,000 to impregnate her.
The teen said he asked his mother, who had been unaware of the affair, for advice. She went to the police, and he got angry because he didn't want the affair to end. He moved out of the house and in with a stripper, but sent Friedman notes asking for money.
Broward Circuit Judge Stanton Kaplan occasionally had to intervene when the teen gave defiant answers to Bogenschutz's questions.
``Why would a law school-educated teacher, who lives in a nice place, who drives a newer Jeep Cherokee, whose father drives a Rolls-Royce, pay $25,000 to be impregnated by a 16-year-old dropout with a drug habit?'' Bogenschutz asked the boy, who shrugged his shoulders in response.
Prosecutor Stacey Honowitz told jurors that no matter how consensual or bizarre the relationship seemed, it is still against the law for an adult to have sex with a minor.
``She did it for love, she did it because she craved him,'' Honowitz said. ``The theory that she's a wonderful, beautiful teacher can't protect her when she crossed that line.''
The trial continues today.
I don't know how Republican politics got into this discussion, but I have a secret to tell you: America as we know it ain't gonna last forever anyway.
There has not yet been an empire built that has not fallen. I don't know what you think would save it, but whatever it is, you're wrong. Don't let the fact that it has lasted so long reasonably intact fool you. Maybe sooner, maybe later, maybe in our lifetimes, maybe dozens of generations from now, maybe in the next millennium, but someday "America" will be spoken of in the past tense the same way "Rome" and "Britannia" are.
I now return you to the small picture, and the sensational and comparatively minor outrage in progress.
I was thinking the same. In profile she looks kind of Arnoldish (I'll be back)
In any event she is stupid for molesting this boy child. And his mom is really stupid for letting it happen. They should both be locked away. I'd say together but they'd probably enjoy that. The teacher looks a little butch after all.
God Save America (Please)
And she calls herself a teacher... :)
I agree. The Republicans should adopt the moral relativism of the Democrats and liberals so our party can be just as successful as the Democratic party. Let's stand up for sex with anyone and anything. Let's help increase the numbers of people with STD's in this country. We don't have enough. And let's help to increase the numbers of children born out of wedlock. And why don't we stop being so hard on men who cheat on their wives, leaving them and their children in the dust? Thank GOD there are many men don't have antiquated views about sex and monogomy! Can you imagine what a horrible world this would be if all men saved themselves for marriage and were loyal to their wives? Who'd want to live in a world like that? If it gives you a thrill, it must be OK. Whatever floats your boat! I'm sure it'll do wonders for the party.
If this is true, there should be some sort of sales record for this.
I don't really know what you're trying to say here. What is this about engaging the enemy? Who's not fighting whom? I thought we were talking about if it's right or wrong for a teen boy to be having sex with a woman in her forties and if it's possible for him to resist her. How did we suddenly get into fighting enemies and being martyrs?
Hey, no problem. You are as welcome to your point of view as I am to mine. I don't think that declaring what you believe it the same as imposing one's attitude on another. Don't apologize for having a wicked tongue, lol! You were just trying to make a point (one that confused me, though :-) ). That's allowed, isn't it?
My best to you!
If I had a boy, I would feel the same way.
That's why they have laws about this stuff. Most horney 15 year old boys have more 'pressing' things on their mind than 'saving themselves' for a lifetime partner.
I tend to agree with PJ. If this guy's story is even partly true, she shouldn't be around kids, let alone being a teacher. But you have got to wonder why he came forward. I think it might have something to do with the fact that this woman appears to have a lot more money than the average teacher. He's likely got a lawyer looking for a legal shake down.
I have followed all the traffic on this thread to this post, and have concluded that the entire story is part of the VRWC and an attempt to generate more attention to the Freeper Holidays! [grin]. Click and donate away!
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