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Same Sex Marriage. Why Should We Care?
Jim Petersen

Posted on 08/18/2003 1:16:57 PM PDT by JimPCPABrevardNC

Marriage is a sacred contract between God a man and a woman. It has nothing to do with the government. At least it shouldn't.


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If two people promise before God to remain faithfull to one another for life, does having government's sanction make that promise any more important to keep? I think not! It sure hasn't kept the divorce rate down. Why are so many Christians and Conservatives wasting time and money fighting the gay's latest effort to legitimize their sinful lifestyle? MONEY. They don't want gays to get spousal benefits, specifically health coverage. If a company wants to offer spousal benefits to its gay employees isn't that the company's business? Herein lies our real problem. We have asked to government to provide all our needs and make life fair. Now they are giving something to someone we don't like and we want it stopped. The solution is two fold. One - stop looking to the government for the answers to your problems. Save your own marriage from divorce. Counsel young couples about Biblical marriage. Pay your own health care bills. Fund your own retirement. Take responsibility for yourself. Two - stop allowing the government to control your day to day life. Fight for smaller government, lower taxes, less regulation, the return of private property rights, more individual libery. It is time we kicked the government out of our bedrooms, churches, schools, and wallets!
1 posted on 08/18/2003 1:16:58 PM PDT by JimPCPABrevardNC
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To: JimPCPABrevardNC
welcome newbie! first day here and already trying to get into a deep constructive discourse?
2 posted on 08/18/2003 1:19:43 PM PDT by bedolido (None of us is as dumb as all of us!)
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To: JimPCPABrevardNC
When Judaism demanded that all sexual activity be channeled into marriage, it changed the world. The Torah's prohibition of non-marital sex quite simply made the creation of Western civilization possible. Societies that did not place boundaries around sexuality were stymied in their development. The subsequent dominance of the Western world can largely be attributed to the sexual revolution initiated by Judaism and later carried forward by Christianity. The acceptance of homosexuality as the equal of heterosexual marital love signifies the decline of Western civilization as surely as the rejection of homosexuality and other nonmarital sex made the creation of this civilization possible. Judaism's Sexual Revolution: Why Judaism (and then Christianity) Rejected Homosexuality

The first thing I want to read is something I wrote about seven, eight years ago called "Human Sexuality and Civil Rights." I wrote this quite a bit prior to the debate over same-sex marriage. And it's a non-binding resolution that I desire to see politically debated. And again, it's entitled "Human Sexuality and Civil Rights." And it goes accordingly.

Whereas:

And whereas:

And whereas:

We affirm: [and there are three points of affirmation]

1. Marriage is defined as the union of one man and one woman in mutual fidelity;

2. No punitive laws shall exist to restrict private association, whether heterosexual or homosexual; [And there are people on the conservative Christian right that Norm's been talking about tonight who disagree with me on that. You'll find a very strong libertarian ethic, but it's based on a prior definition of equal life for all.] and;

3. All persons shall accept accountability for the public consequences of their private associations and actions, and they shall in no way deprive others of life, liberty, or property.

What I'm saying here is that I disagree with same-sex marriage. I disagree with homosexual relationships. Nonetheless, all people are free to disagree with me as I am with them, so long as we have an understanding of unalienable rights, that everyone has life, liberty and property, free not to be violated by other people. So the real debate comes down to those boundaries. And many acts of a homosexual or heterosexual nature, or other forms of sexuality, do violate life, liberty and property. And I'm equally opposed to all of those because I'm in favor of life, liberty and property. But for those acts of any nature that do not violate them, then people have that freedom in a civil society. And you will not see me pursuing those matters.

The second thing that I want to share with you is a petition that I've circulated around the state. I led off the testimony this year in the statehouse February 11th saying "no" to same-sex marriage. I was part of the same panel last year. And this is actually the summation of my testimony one year ago. And I'll walk through the definition of terms as I go. It's entitled, "Petition to Members of the Connecticut General Assembly."

Yes to man and woman in marriage.

No to same-sex marriage.

[Now an important predicate is, I don't say "no" to anything unless I first say "yes" to something. I think you will find that my agenda is a positive one, and my only concern is to protect life, liberty and property, or should I say, to affirm a government that protects life, liberty and property. I seek to do that myself to begin with. And so the real question is, can we honor these unalienable rights while also coming to a place of difference of interpretation. So my "no" is predicated on a prior "yes."]

As a resident of Connecticut I affirm the following: [and there are four affirmations]

1. In the United States, the civil rights which we all enjoy are rooted in the laws of nature and of nature's God, in the unalienable rights to life, liberty, property and the pursuit of happiness. [I have been in contact with all 187 legislators on this matter, at least five to eight times. I've heard back from 48 of them, and none of them will dispute the statement I just gave to you.]
2. The only source for unalienable rights in all human history is the Creator, the God of the Bible. [I've had a couple of people try to dispute me on this. And some years ago one was Nadine Strossen, who is president of the ACLU. And I said that the only source is the God of the Bible, and she started off that evening, and the topic was homosexuality and civil rights that evening. And she quoted the language from Jefferson, that we hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, among which are life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. And as she quoted that, I said you started at the same source that I started: unalienable rights. And so I just have one simple question. Who is the Creator that Thomas Jefferson was referring to? And Jefferson was a rationalist. He was not by any stretch an evangelical Christian as myself, and yet he and those with him who were from an orthodox Christian background in a Protestant context, appealed to a source higher than King George III. They appealed to the Creator. So I asked Nadine Strossen, who is the Creator? She looked at me and said well, you have your Creator and other people have their Creators. I said no, you've just described polytheism. In other words, that's not the context to which Jefferson was referring to. And if you look at every polytheistic culture in all of human history, they have no concept of unalienable rights. Rights go to those who are in power, whereas the concept of unalienable rights upon which this nation is founded, are rooted in the biblical understanding of the Creator, that says that all people deserve the same rights because they are people, and not because of any other secondary reason.]
3. The God of the Bible defines true marriage as one man, one woman, one lifetime. [This is the order of creation, the image of God.] The health of society is rooted in this foundation.
4. In human history, no society has ever affirmed both homosexuality and unalienable rights. [So here is an intellectual challenge, to track out history, to find out where unalienable rights are affirmed. And if you can find any society that ever has affirmed homosexuality and unalienable rights together, you won't find it.] Is Same-Sex Marriage Good for the Nation?

3 posted on 08/18/2003 1:19:49 PM PDT by Vindiciae Contra TyrannoSCOTUS
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To: JimPCPABrevardNC
Zot
4 posted on 08/18/2003 1:20:16 PM PDT by alkaloid2
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To: alkaloid2
You catch on quick. :)
5 posted on 08/18/2003 1:21:36 PM PDT by Tijeras_Slim (Official New Mexican Disruptor of the Lone Star Chat Thread)
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To: Tijeras_Slim
Thanks!

Actually, I posted that before the fella posted the rest of the article...
6 posted on 08/18/2003 1:23:39 PM PDT by alkaloid2
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To: alkaloid2
In Nazi Germany, the Christians did not protest the rounding up of the Jews - it didn't effect them. They didn't protest the rounding up of the Poles - it didn't effect them. But eventually, Hitler did go after the Christians, but by then, it was too late.

The foundation of our society is the family. When perverted people are allowed to change the definition, our entire society is effected. At what point do we draw the "line in the sand?" Some of us believe it is right now!

7 posted on 08/18/2003 1:36:36 PM PDT by LiteKeeper
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To: JimPCPABrevardNC; Vindiciae Contra TyrannoSCOTUS
It's decivilizational.

Thanks for the great Prager link, VCTS.

8 posted on 08/18/2003 1:55:15 PM PDT by onedoug
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To: LiteKeeper
Amen!
9 posted on 08/18/2003 2:13:02 PM PDT by alkaloid2 (Hey! Check out http://www.thesupergenius.com!)
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To: LiteKeeper
Ya, what you said!
10 posted on 08/18/2003 2:42:35 PM PDT by EuroFrog (My hero is in Iraq)
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To: JimPCPABrevardNC
Why are so many Christians and Conservatives wasting time and money fighting the gay's latest effort to legitimize their sinful lifestyle?

Are you loony?

As a conservative Christian I think it is absolutely vital to make a stand against such blatant sinful behavior. To think otherwise is silly! You need to just look around! Gay-only schools, gay bishops, gay day in Disney Land, gay marriages?? NO! IT MUST STOP! -At any cost. It is our Christian DUTY to minister to the sinful (and yes, that includes each other too) and help all to change their sinful ways. These people dont realize they are going to be held accountable and unless we do something they will spend eternity in hell separated from God for ever. Sin has a heavy cost, salvation has already been paid for.

11 posted on 08/18/2003 2:57:08 PM PDT by EuroFrog (My hero is in Iraq)
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To: JimPCPABrevardNC
You're all over the map on this one, mixing the issues of gay marriage with companies offering benefits to gays' partners. Honestly, you need to start from the beginning, and very slowly read about the issues.
12 posted on 08/18/2003 4:01:47 PM PDT by Conservative til I die (They say anti-Catholicism is the thinking man's anti-Semitism; that's an insult to thinking men)
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To: Vindiciae Contra TyrannoSCOTUS
Good read, great post.
14 posted on 08/18/2003 5:37:09 PM PDT by FreeRep (Proud to be American)
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To: JimPCPABrevardNC
JimPCPABrevardNC Since Aug 18, 2003

Welcome to FreeRepublic
15 posted on 08/19/2003 6:29:42 AM PDT by Between the Lines ("What Goes Into the Mind Comes Out in a Life")
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