Posted on 07/10/2003 5:17:05 AM PDT by Desdemona
by Joanna Bogle
Are Young Catholics Cultural Orphans?
7/10/03
Recently a Catholic group concerned with promoting relationships with other faiths sent me a collection of brochures describing family life and traditions in Muslim, Jewish, Hindu, Sikh, and Japanese Shinto cultures. Catholics were urged to establish contact and learn about the different festivals.
Losing "Folk Catholicism"
But there was nothing for them to take with them about their own culture. Despite the widespread ignorance among young Catholics about the Church's feast-days, fast-days, calendar and traditions, they were expected to go empty-handed with no materials speaking of our beliefs, prayers, or way of life.
A friend described to me enthusiastically a visit made with her Catholic women's group to a magnificent Hindu temple — the decorations, the grandeur, the formalities to be observed. They had been careful to dress appropriately and to observe any rituals required of them. They were intrigued by the meanings of the various things they saw.
These incidents came to mind as I spoke to a group of Catholic writers about Catholic customs — the origins of things like pancakes on Shrove Tuesday and Hot Cross Buns on Good Friday, the scattering of flowers before the Blessed Sacrament in procession, May crowning of a statue of Mary, the blessing of throats for Saint Blaise in February.
In discussion afterwards, it became clear that there was widespread concern at the loss of our sense of Catholic culture — of belonging to a community rich in a heritage of faith stretching back 2,000 years. Many Catholic boys and girls today are more familiar with football rituals than with some of the basic signs and symbols of our Faith. Few would be able to explain confidently, for example, why we genuflect before the Tabernacle or why the priest wears vestments of different colors at various times of the year.
What are we doing? Many young Catholics don't even know we are meant to fast on Ash Wednesday, or attend Mass on various Holy Days. They don't have a liturgical "map" in their heads with landmarks such as Advent, Lent, or Pentecost. Their ideas about Christmas and Easter are formed not by Christians traditions but by commercial ones, and increasingly a paganized Halloween is replacing even the vaguest notions of All Saints Day and All Souls Day and praying for the dead in November.
We are creating generations of cultural and spiritual orphans — expecting them to remain Catholics without any links with the past, and without the sense of belonging to a community that has a glorious heritage of which they are a part and to which they can make their own contribution.
The willful destruction of many statues and shrines in churches in the 1970s (under the guise of "implementing Vatican II") is now generally acknowledged to have been a disaster, along with the deliberate and unnecessary abandonment of virtually all Latin in some parishes, so that words and phrases such as "Gloria in excelsis", "Pater noster" and "Sanctus" now mean little or nothing to many people.
But perhaps the greatest loss was the sense of "folk Catholicism", a confidence in our own value as a faith community, a people on pilgrimage together with ideas, songs, traditions and customs that bind us with one another and with those who have gone before.
Revival of the "Domestic Church"
It's not too late — it is never too late — to make things right. We can and must revive our Catholic memories and traditions. Modern life makes many things easier: we can travel to shrines and places of pilgrimage at home or abroad, we can enjoy great paintings and music via art galleries, CDs, and the Internet, and even family celebrations are easier thanks to supermarkets, freezers and modern kitchens, which take much of the grim labor out of preparing and serving meals.
Pope John Paul II has spoken often of the "domestic Church", the little human community that is the family. A Catholic family home should be a place of welcome and hospitality, where visitors can "catch" something of the flavor of the Catholic faith and absorb its message.
Grace at meals — perhaps varying according to the season, or to reflect specific events or needs. A special meal on the feast-day of the patron saint of each member of the family as it comes round. Traditional dishes for great Church feasts, perhaps discovered on trips abroad or in one's own country. Candles on an Advent wreath. Simple meals in Lent with funds saved going to Catholic projects. Commemorative candles from Baptism or First Communion carefully saved and re-lit for special occasions.
All of these things require planning — and encouragement, via the Sunday pulpit, from the clergy, who do need to remind us from time to time that our homes should not be shrines to television or merely places where we sleep, launder clothes, and grab snacks from the fridge.
We need reminders, too, about the importance of having a crucifix hanging in our home, together with perhaps a statue or picture of Our Lady and/or of the Sacred Heart — and that every Catholic should possess a Rosary, and know how to use it.
Re-Catholicizing Schools
Catholic culture should obviously be widely reflected in our schools. It is a delight, on entering a Catholic school, to find a statue of Our Lady that is obviously well cherished and has a votive light or a fresh posy of flowers in front of it. It is sad when our schools seem keener on emphasizing their secular credentials than on celebrating the real values on which they were founded. I once passed a Catholic girls' school boasting the slogan "Educating girls for success", which struck me as being a quite horribly inaccurate vision of what such an establishment should be doing!
We need to think about Sunday as a special day. How often you hear people speak with respect of the ways Jewish families honor their Sabbath rituals, and yet we seem to think we can ignore Sunday Mass if it is a bit inconvenient, or treat Communion lightly, with snacks and sweets munched without thought to the need for an hour's fast.
In today's society, each of us needs to be evangelistic. People are hungry for real spiritual truths. Aromatherapy, counseling, and various diets may have their uses, but cannot answer our deepest needs. We are made for God, and there is an ache in our hearts until we find Him. Using our Catholic traditions and customs, we can restore our confidence in our own faith and learn to share it with others.
The next time some one asks you about Catholic customs and traditions, don't just mumble that we don't seem to have any — make it your business to rediscover them and pass them on.
Copyright © 2002 Women for Faith & Family
Joanna Bogle is a British Catholic journalist who frequently appears on radio and television. Excerpts from her A Book of Feasts and Seasons appear on several pages of the Prayers and Devotions section on the WFF web site. She is the author of a book for girls aged nine and up, We Didn't Mean to Start a School ($10 - write Mrs. Bogle at 34 Barnard Gardens, New Malden, Surrey, KT3 6QG, England.)
This article previously appeared in Voices, the journal of Women for Faith & Family, and is adapted by permission.
You used to have a place to keep them -- in your missal. Including the cards they used to send with acknowledgement notes for attending a wake, with a prayer for the deceased on the back.
Jackie Kennedy didn't wear mantillas to church -- she wore headscarves, folded into a triangle and tied under her chin -- which our nuns considered hardly one step above the Kleenex girls sometimes pinned to their heads to make an unexpected visit. (She may have started to wear mantillas at one point, because there was a lot of negative talk about the headscarves, but I don't remember.)
This is true. I grew up without Catholic culture. My dad was Catholic (good-hearted but ignorant) and my mother was Protestant. Public school and secular culture made me feel embarassed about Catholic cultural trappings.
My wife and I have made a determind effort to reverse things in our home. We homeschool with a Catholic curriculum that's suffused with the faith. We provide lots of age-appropriate spiritual literature, videos, etc. My girls collect holy cards like other kids collect Pokemon cards. Me, "don't you want to collect them all?" "Yeah!"
Last night when I went upstairs to tuck in the girls, my 8-yr-old showed me the shrine she had set up. She had placed holy cards around the feet of a statue of Mary, draped a rosary around her neck, and put a flower on her head. "Daddy, do you like how I taped the St. Francis picture on the wall?"
"Yes, very nice."
"It's funny how other kids have pictures of Superman on their walls and I have St. Francis."
"Yes, well, St. Francis was real, I mean is real, and Superman is make believe. St. Francis was a real hero."
"Yeah, it's just make believe. It's kind of funny. I might take Frances as my confirmation name. Either that or Therese. I like Therese. Or maybe Veronica. But they don't know very much about Veronica, do they?"
"No, they don't."
The joys of homeschooling and preserving a Catholic culture.
People seem to think that the term "Christian" is more universal than the term "Catholic." But the word "Catholic" means "universal," of course, and is a perfectly appropriate descriptor of Christ's (Universal) Church.
The term "Christian" probably isn't the best term to describe "followers of Christ," since the most fundamental belief of all Christian faiths is the Trinity. "Trinitarians" would be a better term than "Christian."
We should probably describe ourselves as Trinitarians belonging to the Catholic Church.
"I didn't know the Catholic Church had doctors!" is the usual response I get.
Right -- didn't start going on me until high school and college. I'm so glad I at least got some of the old Holy Week services; the parish we were in was small and poor, so the seventh grade and the eighth grade girls were the choir (I'd never be allowed in a choir where you actually had to be able to sing!). We sang Holy Week -- in Latin, of course. I loved it.
"...born again of water and the Spirit." This is a reference to Baptism and has been so taught by the Church since its beginning.
The common Evangelical and Fundamentalist interpretation is a historical novelty.
To paraphrase a well-known conservative formulation, we would probably be better off with ten people selected randomly from the telephone directory making such decisions.
So can you choose the church you attend?
Am I not remembering right, was it tradition, has something changed...I could have sworn that when I was a kid that areas were designated at to which church you attended, depending on where you lived?????
Becky
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