As a heterosexual woman who is happily married; I would NEVER be with a man who says he is no longer gay. For men attraction is very much a physical thing. No way someone attracted to men are going to become straight. He’s lying to himself and to you.
If you had a homosexual son, would you not welcome his reversion?
Kind regards Leaning Conservative!
You might read some of the linked articles, especially the amici curiae brief here:
https://sblog.s3.amazonaws.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/14-556bsacSame-SexAttractedMenandTheirWives.pdf
“Says he is no longer gay...”
That is not what they are doing. They are making a clear distinction between lust and duty. There is no lying involved in the referenced articles.