Kind regards Leaning Conservative!
You might read some of the linked articles, especially the amici curiae brief here:
https://sblog.s3.amazonaws.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/14-556bsacSame-SexAttractedMenandTheirWives.pdf
“Says he is no longer gay...”
That is not what they are doing. They are making a clear distinction between lust and duty. There is no lying involved in the referenced articles.
Kind regards back! Question: if you were a woman would you want to be with a man who is saying he is going to be with a woman out of duty? I definitely would not because that is obviously not in his nature. A relationship like that just begs for pain and sadness for both the man & the woman.