My son lost everything and wound up in debt. And we’re talking thousands and thousands of dollars.
Reward things you want more of, tax things you want less of. Look at Hungarian model; get married, stay married, have kids, cut your taxes. Have at least four kids and stay married, never pay taxes again.
Divorce is overwhelmingly done by the female.
In modern America marriage is high risk for the male and a trial period for the female, in most cases, she walks away with what made the time invested worth doing, the children, the home, and the same address and social circle, after taxes child support and the best car, etc.
Basically, you have the marriage and the family life Christmases and laughing children and home life, and then one day the man is kicked out and sent away, a replaceable part that was on trial and is interchangeable.
He violated the first rule of modern marriage for young people—applies to both men and women.
These days you must always marry someone wealthier than you are.
Then the court system is no longer your enemy since it operates on Marxist principles:
“From each according to their ability, to each according to his/their needs.”