“But I and my family am not giving up the Latin Mass. Ever. Period. End of story.”
I’m with you. And what it also means is that until these unjust prohibitions on the TLM are removed, I refuse to in any way participate in or patronize the Novus Ordo (other than maybe an occasional funeral or wedding, at which I’ll be a stranger in a strange land like the non-Catholics in attendance).
If possible, you should find yourself a dedicated TLM oratory or “parish” that is organized under the FSSP or ICKSP. Those will be in a better position to endure in the U.S. — especially in places where the church property is owned by an independent group of lay Catholics and not by the diocese.