I could go through the night listing scripture after scripture just as you have.
How about just addressing the few that I listed? Is that to difficult?
Again, I see my God as a loving God. It appears you see Him as harsh. That's ok. Be confident in what you believe.
There are 1200 various denominations within the Christian faith and over 40,000 off-shoots to that. There are Christian essentials and non essentials. Most denominations believe and adhere to the essential Christian theology. It is the non essentials that have fractured the church for the most part.
I will not do the scriptural tit for tat. Been there, done that. I've sparred in the past with folks that love to use scripture like a club in order to beat people about the head and neck.
My goal is to help lead people to a loving, accepting God and out of the bondage of man made legalism.
And no, I'm not a Ravi or whatever your sarcastic reference was eluding to.
I've studied the bible for many years and from various denominational view points. I attended bible college and received my associates in biblical studies. Not that it means anything to anyone else, but it helped me learn how to study the bible and study in context. I now love God more than anytime in my life...because I understand what He did for us and why He did it.
God bless fella.