When Others Abuse (Protestant/Evangelical Devotional)

Email from "The Navigators" | 11/18/2020 | Jerry Bridges

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When Others Abuse

Today’s Scripture: 1 Corinthians 13:5

“[Love] . . . is not easily angered.”

I certainly don’t advocate "doormat" Christianity, letting people continually run over us or abuse us. There are times when we must stand up for what is right and just. But we should not sin in the process. We must face the fact that much, if not most, of our anger is sinful, even though it may arise from the sinful actions of others. In emphasizing our sin of anger, I do not mean to minimize the sin of those other people. But there’s an old saying, "Two wrongs never make a right." The other person’s sin does not make our sin of anger "right" or justifiable. Or as James wrote, "The anger of man does not produce the righteousness that God requires" (1:20).

Furthermore, I suspect that much of our anger is not a result of significant injustices or wrongs against us but is the manifestation of our own pride and selfishness. I’ve been embarrassed or inconvenienced or frustrated by the actions (or even the inactions) of other people, so I get angry. While there is plenty of injustice that deserves a response of righteous anger, we should not use that as an excuse to evade the reality of the sinful anger that so often arises in our hearts and may be expressed by our words or actions.

So I commend to you three principles or practices that I find so helpful: a firm belief in the sovereignty of God; a diligent pursuit of brotherly love that covers a multitude of sins and does not keep a record of wrongs; and a humble realization that, in comparison to my brother’s sin against me, I am the ten-thousand-talent debtor to God (Matthew 18:21-35). (Excerpt taken from Respectable Sins)

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[metmom]

Good word for today.

Thanks.