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Controlling Yourself
GracetoYou.org ^ | 1993 | John MacArthur, Grace Community Church

Posted on 04/08/2020 6:14:39 AM PDT by metmom

"Blessed are the gentle, for they shall inherit the earth" (Matt. 5:5).

Gentleness is power under control.

The Greek word translated "gentle" in Matthew 5:5 speaks of humility, meekness, and non-retaliation—traits that in our proud society are often equated with weakness or cowardice. But in reality they are virtues that identify kingdom citizens.

The same word was used by the Greeks to describe a gentle breeze, a soothing medicine, or a domesticated colt. Those are examples of power under control: a gentle breeze brings pleasure, but a hurricane brings destruction; a soothing medicine brings healing, but an overdose can kill; a domesticated colt is useful, but a wild horse is dangerous.

Christ Himself is the epitome of gentleness. Even when officially announcing His messiahship to Jerusalem, He humbly entered the city astride a donkey (Matt. 21:5). His behavior amid persecution was exemplary: "Christ . . . suffered for you, leaving you an example for you to follow in His steps, who committed no sin, nor was any deceit found in His mouth; and while being reviled, He did not revile in return; while suffering, He uttered no threats" (1 Pet. 2:21-23).

Despite His humility and restraint, Jesus wasn't weak or cowardly. He never defended Himself, but when His Father's house was being desecrated, He made a whip and beat those who were defiling it (John 2:13-16; Matt. 21:12-13). He never shirked from pronouncing judgment on unrepentant sinners, and never compromised His integrity or disobeyed His Father's will.

The hypocritical Jewish religious leaders expected that when Israel's Messiah came He would commend them for their wonderful spirituality. Instead, Jesus condemned them and called them children of the devil (John 8:44). In retaliation they had Him murdered. His power was always under control; theirs wasn't.

Our society has little use for gentleness. The macho, do-your-own-thing mentality characterizes most of our heroes. But you are called to a higher standard. When you pattern your life after Jesus, you will have a significant impact on society and will know true happiness.

Suggestions for Prayer

Thank God for the virtue of gentleness, which He is producing in you by the power of His Spirit. Follow Christ's example today so that gentleness will mark your character.

For Further Study

Read the following passages, noting the responsibilities and blessings that accompany self-restraint: Proverbs 16:32, Ephesians 4:1-2, Colossians 3:12, and Titus 3:1-2.


TOPICS: Evangelical Christian; General Discusssion; Theology; Worship
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1 posted on 04/08/2020 6:14:39 AM PDT by metmom
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To: Alex Murphy; boatbums; CynicalBear; daniel1212; ealgeone; Elsie; Gamecock; HossB86; Iscool; ...

Studying God’s Word ping


2 posted on 04/08/2020 6:15:06 AM PDT by metmom (...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith..)
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To: metmom

This is very true. I deal with narcissistic personalities within my household. I stopped arguing...and the fire, though still intense...is beginning to peter out. They have no where to go when the response is a smile and a nod.


3 posted on 04/08/2020 6:42:24 AM PDT by freepertoo
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To: freepertoo

A Pavlovian approach seems to work well.

When people treat you nicely, they are rewarded with positive attention.

When people treat you badly, they are ignored.

Eventually they figure it out....


4 posted on 04/08/2020 7:05:09 AM PDT by cgbg (Pattern recognition is the first sign of intelligence.)
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To: freepertoo

I hear you.


5 posted on 04/08/2020 7:19:25 AM PDT by metmom (...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith..)
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To: cgbg

Sometimes they figure it out. Narcissistic personality disorder can throw you for a loop sometimes when you’re on the receiving end of it.


6 posted on 04/08/2020 7:22:34 AM PDT by freepertoo
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To: metmom

The correct translation is ‘meek’, not ‘gentle’. The words meek and gentle are actually opposites. To be gentle means to reach out without doing violence. To be meek means to receive what comes your way without a violent response.


7 posted on 04/08/2020 10:59:06 AM PDT by aimhigh (THIS is His commandment . . . . 1 John 3:23)
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To: aimhigh; metmom
This difficult-to-translate root (pra-) means more than "meek." Biblical meekness is not weakness but rather refers to exercising God's strength under His control – i.e. demonstrating power without undue harshness.

[The English term "meek" often lacks this blend – i.e. of gentleness (reserve) and strength.]

https://biblehub.com/greek/4239.htm

8 posted on 04/08/2020 12:58:14 PM PDT by ealgeone
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