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Should churches aid matchmaking for lonely singles?
Christian Post ^ | 09/20/2019 | By John Stonestreet and G. Shane Morris

Posted on 09/20/2019 7:55:37 AM PDT by SeekAndFind

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1 posted on 09/20/2019 7:55:37 AM PDT by SeekAndFind
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Gee, I think young singles still meet young singles in Church related activities — not infrequently leading to marriages.


2 posted on 09/20/2019 7:59:37 AM PDT by House Atreides (Boycott the NFL 100% — PERMANENTLY)
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Traditionally, church was one of the places where you met and got to know eligible and desirable potential mates. The others were school and workplace. All three have been severely vitiated by the ongoing social decomposition driven by the Left.
3 posted on 09/20/2019 8:01:44 AM PDT by hinckley buzzard (Power is more often surrendered than seized.)
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Is BINGO next?


4 posted on 09/20/2019 8:02:33 AM PDT by alternatives? (Why have an army if there are no borders?)
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The United Trinity Church did such a good job matching the obamys but they just can’t seem to get Oprah and Stedman married.


5 posted on 09/20/2019 8:07:07 AM PDT by bgill
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I am all for churches hosting events that would encourage interactions among Christian singles, as long as there was no homo play and the church didn’t become a meat market.

I would recommend that any such program be monitored closely, until it became clear that it was self-regulating.


6 posted on 09/20/2019 8:07:44 AM PDT by IronJack
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Gee, I think young singles still meet young singles in Church related activities — not infrequently leading to marriages.

Reminds me of many western movies and TV shows in which a young cowboy hopes to take a pretty girl to "the church social".

7 posted on 09/20/2019 8:09:22 AM PDT by Sans-Culotte (If it weren't for fake hate crimes, there would be no hate crimes at all.)
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If you go back a 120 years, virtually everyone in the southern part of the US....met via a local church situation. It seemed to work in that time period, without any issues.


8 posted on 09/20/2019 8:10:01 AM PDT by pepsionice
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Church was where the Obama’z met. In Rev. Wright’s ‘down low club’.


9 posted on 09/20/2019 8:11:27 AM PDT by Parmy
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To: SeekAndFind

They do, anyway.


10 posted on 09/20/2019 8:12:04 AM PDT by Fido969 (In!)
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Sure, what could go wrong?


11 posted on 09/20/2019 8:12:26 AM PDT by bigbob (Trust Trump. Trust the Plan.)
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The best thing churches can do to reverse the trend in marriage rates is work on getting young people to be less selfish.


12 posted on 09/20/2019 8:12:39 AM PDT by Buckeye McFrog (Patrick Henry would have been an anti-vaxxer.)
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YES, Church should help young people form unions and set up families. That leads to happiness and children, stability and community. Churches are the right place for this.


13 posted on 09/20/2019 8:17:41 AM PDT by Forward the Light Brigade (Into the Jaws of H*ll Onward! Ride to the sound ovil.f the guns!)
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Short answer: yes, though a Christian version of Jewish matchmakers would be better.

The Christian matchmaker can draw from a broader pool than a small church to find a better match. It also saves the pastor from creating drama by pairing people who blow up, often driving one from the church to avoid the other.


14 posted on 09/20/2019 8:23:08 AM PDT by tbw2
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Short answer: yes, though a Christian version of Jewish matchmakers would be better.

The Christian matchmaker can draw from a broader pool than a small church to find a better match. It also saves the pastor from creating drama by pairing people who blow up, often driving one from the church to avoid the other.


15 posted on 09/20/2019 8:23:46 AM PDT by tbw2
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Say what you want about that sign, but it readily lets me know to avoid the place


16 posted on 09/20/2019 8:25:26 AM PDT by Karma_Sherab
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To: House Atreides

That’s what happens at my church. The “contemporary choir” and the homeless mission are particularly “matchmakey.”


17 posted on 09/20/2019 8:28:55 AM PDT by Tax-chick ("The potential for miscalculation and chaos is substantial." ~ Kevin Williamson)
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That is how ALL of my married immediate family members met: at church functions. My sister married a pk/mk.

I met my husband at campmeeting at age 16. Boy, were the chaperones out in force. Church situations SHOULD BE the safest.


18 posted on 09/20/2019 8:28:56 AM PDT by madison10
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Many years ago, I went to temple alone for the high holidays. Not once, not twice , but three times some mother came up to me and wanted to introduce me to their daughter.

At my first high holidays with the wife, I ran into the mother. She said her daughter was there and wanted to introduce me. While waiting I told my wife the story. A couple of minutes later the woman appeared with her daughter. Turns out I dated her in high school.


19 posted on 09/20/2019 8:31:14 AM PDT by EQAndyBuzz (When you think about what the left is doing to America, think no further than Cloward-Piven)
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No.


20 posted on 09/20/2019 8:35:01 AM PDT by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; Not Averse to Going Bronson.)
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