I really find it hypocritical when women dress sexy to attract the attention of men, then complain that they have attracted the attention of men. Our fallen human nature is what it is, and simple charity should dictate that we do nothing to unnecessarily tempt others into sin.
I recall a cartoon of a woman telling a plastic surgeon “I want them big enough that I can tell men to stop staring at them”
"What are you so aggravated about?"
"I spent over an hour putting on all of my make-up,
coordinating my pants and blouse and doing my hair.
And l had barely got out the front door when
some strange guy harassed me!"
"Wow. What did he do?"
"He noticed!"
But, but, but, that would mean thinking of someone besides themselves!!!!!
And that old fashioned thing...... remember.....? It was called "common courtesy", IIRC.
Actual conversation at a Starbucks:
“What are you looking at, pervert?”
“Your tattoo. That’s why you got it, isn’t it?”