I would agree that something has gone wrong.
But, alas, we all have a sinful nature. Something goes wrong for each of us to some degree. But I don’t want to skirt the main issue — I believe that homosexuality is a mental illness. It’s not normal. It’s not OK. The people should try to form more normal bonds of love, and if they cannot do that, they should at least refrain from sinful sexual practices.
Focus on the Family has a wonderful outreach to homosexuals who would like some help. I admire them greatly for that, as they take a fair bit of heat.