No. Just to me, max..
“Look, you guys are having problems you know..getting it on after 10 years? You have 2 kids and want to know where the romance went?..etc.”
Send them to the Marriage Encounter weekend in your area.
max,
We had five kids when we attended a Marriage Encounter weekend. It changed our lives and we had eight happy years of marriage after that. (Before my husband died from cancer.)
Our kids thanked us profusely and said they did not want their old parents back.