I am not asking questions in order to throw shade on non-Catholic people as if my own church were a model of fidelity in this regard. It certainly is not.
I ask questions, because I seek understanding. I presume you do, too?
I would show my respect for the integrity of your church, whatever it is, by not receiving your communion. And this is how you, properly, would be asked to show respect for mine.
It's all about mutual respect.
It’s nothing to do with mutual respect. The entire Mass is not supported by the New Testament. Why participate in something that isn’t Scriptural?