I am in the same boat.
Prayers up for both of you.
Please just go to Confession. The priest will lead you. There are no sins that he has not heard, and there are no sins that you confess and feel remorse for the God will not forgive.
God doesn't understand language, HE understands sorrow unto repentance.
Easy peasy
1 Timothy 2:5
For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus;
6 Who gave himself a ransom for all, to be testified in due time.
7 Whereunto I am ordained a preacher, and an apostle, (I speak the truth in Christ, and lie not;) a teacher of the Gentiles in faith and verity.
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20Timothy+2&version=KJV