Congratulations!
You know, it’s funny. When I was growing up, it never occurred to me that my parents were doing anything out of line. But as I got older I started to review some of the things they had done and the effect those things had on me.
While I’m bound to honor my parents, if they weren’t my parents, I wouldn’t give them the time of day.
And I always tell people with children who are thinking of divorce “Be VERY careful with how you treat your children, one day you will answer to an adult for it.”