The Holy Family of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph (Feast)
God sets a father in honor over his children. (Sirach 3:2)
In Rome, you can visit the place where St. Ignatius Loyola lived. In the room where he prayed, there is one picture mounted on the wall: a painting of the Holy Family. This was the one image Ignatius used for his meditation every day.
What was Ignatius pondering as he spent hours gazing upon that picture? Was he admiring the way Mary listened to the leadings of the Holy Spirit and consented to be the mother of Jesus? Perhaps he pondered what it would have been like to walk with Joseph, leading and protecting Mary and the baby Jesus on their journey to Egypt? Maybe Ignatius saw himself sitting down for dinner each night and joining in conversation with these three?
Ignatius probably also spent time meditating on how God joined himself so closely with us in the birth of Jesus and on how Jesus submitted himself to his parents’ authority. He probably also pictured himself at work with Joseph and Jesus in the carpenter’s workshop. It’s even possible that Ignatius prayed to the Holy Family in intercession for all the families that he knew.
It’s hard to be a holy family today. The world doesn’t always share or support our values. Everything has become so fast paced and demanding that it’s hard for couples to find the time to deepen their relationship. Many families also face significant financial obstacles. Clearly the challenges are many. But we shouldn’t let them discourage us. Why? Because we have a loving Father who will always look out for us.
As you celebrate the Holy Family today, know that Jesus treasures your family—no matter what shape it is in. He knows your needs, and he is constantly pouring out love and blessings upon you.
One sure way that your family can be like the Holy Family is to imitate Jesus by giving your own expressions of love. Whether your family is united or divided, whether it is healthy or struggling, tell your children that you love them. Show them your affection by hugging them or kissing them. Let love—your love and Jesus’ love—cover your family, and God will bless you.
“Jesus, protect our children. Transform all families into holy families.”
Psalm 128:1-5
Matthew 2:13-15, 19-23
Daily Marriage Tip for December 30, 2016:
Today’s first reading reminds us to honor our parents all the days of our lives. Do you treat your spouse’s parents with the same respect you treat your own? Do you help your spouse take care of their needs?