Yes, dear, "women" do understand how abominable the sin is, but sadly, for most people attending funerals these days, denying someone the ability to honor a loved one would cause more of a scandal than someone's particular sin. That's because many people at Catholic funerals these days haven't darkened the doors of a Church since the last funeral or wedding they attended; many don't attend Mass regularly these days, so they have no clue what the Church teaches, or why.
“Yes, dear, “women” do understand how abominable the sin is”
There is a whole level that women just don’t get.