Hate-a-holic would be a way of describing the spiritual and emotional situation of many of them.
When this is combined with the common, low-spirituality Christian way of considering them so perfectly framed by sin that any kindness that they might be shown is itself liable to these Christians’ participation in sin, it’s amazing that any are approached at all with anything but more hate. They hear contentless, unillustrated calls from high horses to “repent.” Jesus isn’t even shown as a name to them — Jesus is an arbitrary string of phonemes.
God has to be disgusted with this state of affairs.
Our heavenly father has OFTEN been "disgusted" with the state of affairs of His creations. He DID give us free will.
He also gave us a conscience to choose. He sent His only begotten son to us and Jesus was here on earth three years.
Even our measurement of time, Anno Domini, is named for God.
My trust is wholly with our Lord.