Spot on. I feel exactly as you do. I’m sixty years old and the America you describe is the one I grew up in. That America has vanished.
I am about your age. I do not recognize my country anymore.
But I am doing my part. My wife and I taught my kids what our parents taught us. Manners, respect and humility. I live in a small Texas town and the residents are all of the same mindset.
We, as traditional Americans will have to establish outposts where civility and normalcy thrive to counter the self destructive insanity that has become the current American culture.