Glad to see you're having such a good time.
what is the difference between a remarried woman and an unmarried woman with a boyfriend if they are, theoretically speaking, not abstaining from sexual activity ?
Do I really need to define adultery for you or quote the 6th Commandment?
Not what I meant by difference; what is the difference in the penalty for a remarried woman who was divorced and an unmarried woman with a boyfriend but not abstaining from sexual activity ?