I have found that he easiest way to be certain that I am on the right side of an issue is to take the exact opposite view of the usual suspects.
“I have found that he easiest way to be certain that I am on the right side of an issue is to take the exact opposite view of the usual suspects.”
Yep. That works.
You have a point there! Especially when we are spoken at, or about, and not with. That isn’t discussion, or dialogue, and is counter-productive to mutual understanding.