If people have families they should take care of their families. Ignoring your family to reach out to strangers is not right.
I have two sisters who didn’t even buy their kids presents this year because they were too lazy/busy/distracted/insensitive. These kids are sophomores in high school and in college. I grew up with a lot of idiot activists who spent more time taking care of strangers than taking care of their own families. I devote myself to my family. When they don’t need me, I might seek out total strangers to “help.”
My kids didn’t get Christmas gifts. Instead they will get an Epiphany gift!