THat makes a lot of sense, one thing that bothers me is I don't want to poison my children against the institutional Church. We've already had enough "Daddy says the Church teaches this but the bishop teaches otherwise" events. Balancing what we teach and what the Church appears to be teaching is a difficult job, on one side looms sedevacantism and on the other is the Church of Nice. Neither of those possibilities does anything other than scare me.
It sounds as though you're already dealing with the dilemma in a rational manner. That's all any of us can do, and then trust the outcome to God.
Have you enthroned the Sacred Heart in your home?
http://www.catholictradition.org/Two-Hearts/enthronement-3.htm
Another suggestion: St. Louis de Montfort's total consecration to Jesus through Mary.
http://www.fisheaters.com/totalconsecrationmontfort.html
http://www.marian.org/marians/A-New-Day-Dawns-for-Marian-Consecration-4742
More recs:
"Church Militant Field Manual: Special Forces Training for the Life in Christ"
"Officium Divinum" (abridged for use of the laity) Angelus Press
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"Pray, hope, and don't worry. Worry is useless. God is merciful and will hear your prayer." - Padre Pio