Posted on 04/21/2014 3:56:43 PM PDT by NYer
Interesting on many levels, ping!
BTTT!
**your husband, who is not Catholic, will technically not be a godparent, but a “Christian witness” to the baptism. **
This answers one of the questions I have always had about mixed marriages being godparents.
**I presume that you’ve been informed that if your marriage is not recognized by the Church, you are not able to receive the sacraments.**
How many are there like this who should not be receiving the Sacraments?
I don’t know. My wife and I are both Catholic, but we were married by a JP. However, we were our nephew’s godparents, and the Church didn’t blink an eye (though, they may not have asked us if we had been married in the Church; I think they just asked if we were legally married).
Is it time to have your marriage blessed?
“How many are there like this who should not be receiving the Sacraments?”
The number would be very large and include most married Catholic couples.
We’ve been married 31 years. I’d say it’s pretty blessed.
I would check with your priest.
Actually I should have said “con-validated.”
Living in a Josephite civil marriage my wife and I would encounter no problems receiving the sacraments. But I'm not confirmed and would not be unless it was wholly within the purview of the FSSP, etc.
Not finding any reference for that in canon law
http://www.catholicdoors.com/misc/marriage/canonlaw.htm
I might be mistaken because of the chaste relationship. I think of the parents of St. Therese of Lisseux.
“We’ve been married 31 years. I’d say it’s pretty blessed.”
Why not get all the blessings you can by being married in the Church?
“Living in a Josephite civil marriage my wife and I would encounter no problems receiving the sacraments.”
Josephite civil marriage? I don’t think there is such a thing. For it to be a Josephite marriage it needs to be a licit, valid Catholic marriage. I think you also need permission of the bishop in that case as well.
It has been known throughout many cultures as the bond of a man and a woman for reasons of spiritual and emotional intimacy and connection where partners help each other reach spiritual realization of God.
Has been discussed with a priest.
**I think you also need permission of the bishop in that case as well.**
My impression too from looking at the canon law site.
I don't need permission of the bishop for anything.
“Has been discussed with a priest.”
You still need to have your marriage regularized. Did that ever happen? Did you get permission from your bishop for a Josephite marriage?
I really don’t care what you do. It’s your soul. The Church, however, teaches that you should have more than a civil marriage and you don’t have one. The Church also, if I am not mistaken, says you should have permission from your bishop for a Josephite marriage. You can’t pick and choose what Church teachings and laws you’re going to follow.
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