Thanks for that link. The headline of this article is deliberately deceptive but sufficient for simple minds with anti-Christian sentiments. The letter that appears at the link indicates a far more complex and serious issue than that of acting like a tomboy. It should be obvious this concerns more than her dress and hair length. It appears the school is trying to be as discrete as possible but malevolent people are not going to let it lie.
It is a private school and any Bible believing Christian would understand that at some point, tolerance of inappropriate behavior must end. The girl has been enrolled in a public school, which I’m sure will indulge any behavioral abnormalities her parents and grandparents find acceptable.
I’d say that this problem is being exacerbated by the grandmother. The girl would probably do well dressing and acting like a girl if gramma would step aside.
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