I said nothing of the sort. Go back and read what I wrote.
God does not prevent anyone from coming to Christ. Man's sin nature prevents everyone from coming to Christ. If you come to Christ it is only because God changed your nature so you would.
Who gets the final say in where you spend eternity, you or God?
I believe that, but you cannot believe what you believe and think this is true.
You believe the predestined will go to heaven. So do I. But you also believe those not predestined all go to hell. So by your logic God prevents all he does not predestine from coming to Christ.