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To: daniel1212; boatbums

I’ll add this to the mix...

Sex is for a married man and woman.

No woman(or man) should be taking what is for their spouse and flaunting it for other members of the opposite sex to speculate on or lust after.

The only person who I am free to be sexually suggestive for is my husband. It is irresponsible on my part to present myself in a way that entices any other man to think that way of me.

Now, of course I realize that even in a burka, some men will think that way because that’s just the way they are, but just because some men are that way, does not justify a woman from dressing to cause lust and then blaming the man for lusting.

If a man is going to think that way about me, it’s NOT going to be because I did anything to encourage it. It will remain HIS responsibility, not mine.

Any woman who dresses inappropriately bears some responsibility for the man’s reaction. She’s doing it to elicit a reaction so that makes her culpable.


99 posted on 11/13/2013 11:32:45 PM PST by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of faith....)
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To: metmom
If a man is going to think that way about me, it’s NOT going to be because I did anything to encourage it. It will remain HIS responsibility, not mine.

Any woman who dresses inappropriately bears some responsibility for the man’s reaction. She’s doing it to elicit a reaction so that makes her culpable.

A refreshing contrast to the modern view, which seems to think Christian liberty sanctions sensual dress, and cries legalism or pleads ambiguity when modesty is enjoined.

And it is getting so licentious in the world that even in news articles one must often look straight forward due to the ads on the side, though i can admit to inquisitive glaces otherwise. At least i can say that such makes the idea that they evolved to be inconceivable to me.

126 posted on 11/14/2013 7:34:28 AM PST by daniel1212 (Come to the Lord Jesus as a contrite damned+destitute sinner, trust Him to save you, then live 4 Him)
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