Oh?
I'd like to see the SCRIPTURE that teaches that.
Until you post it; read THIS...
1 Corinthians 7:15
But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace.
Not that the wife was an 'unbeliever'; but SHE left him - NOT the other way around.
You will be better informed if you read through the article entitled "The Sin of Remarriage Adultery" which gives the desired Scriptural foundation for my comment.
Regarding Dr. Stanley and his predicament in retaining an office in the church as elder or teacher, reading the Holy Ghost's instructions to Timothy and Titus (and their ongoing later supervisory equivalents), in 1 Tim 3 and Titus 1, with plenty of meditation, will verify what I said about that issue.