Hate the sin; love the sinner.
A local pastor in Seattle tells the story of how he thought a special Saturday service to focus on women would be good. I forget how he worded the announcement that made it into the surrounding community - but somehow it attracted a large number of lesbians!
He said that was the last thing he had expected - but he figured it was a sure sign from God that when the first few pews were filled with homosexuals - he was supposed to minister to them. He somehow tailored additional Saturday services to focus, in a loving way, on their specific needs and issues.