Practicing Southern Baptists, like practicing Catholics, believe that Marriage is between one man and one woman, and that homosexuality is an abnormal, sinful, hedonistic, chosen life style which shouldn't be pushed.
Didn't the pastor's wife know what her husband did for a living?
Exactly, this chosen life style of sin that is being pushed by the enemy in order to lead many away from God's gracious Love for a mess of sexual pottage.