Posted on 04/29/2013 7:50:03 PM PDT by Salvation
My three eldest (daughter and two sons) who are eligible, serve. However, we are getting a new pastor next month (TLM qualified and fairly young) so that may change the game. Personally, I think that women should be excluded from serving at the altar, and that when the deacon is present at Mass, extraordinary ministers should not distribute the Blood.
It should be the two ordained who administer the distribution of the Eucharist.
Now, when the Communion rail is returned, along with the patens held by the servers, then I shall be excited.
You ought to see how many EMs are at our parish. It’s beyond ridiculous. 15 at every Mass distributing both elements of the Eucharist. I know Father is just trying to save time, but good grief! That’s an abuse, IMO.
We always had ample numbers of boy serving at our parish. After the girls started serving the number of boys dropped dramatically. Less than half of the servers are boys now.
Hasn’t come to ours; if it weren’t for the females, there would be a huge shortage of altar servers. Seems once they began to allow the use of the females, the males lost interest.
No, it has not come to my diocese, but, unfortunately, ours is not very traditional.
Ditto and ditto.
Also, when I receive Communion I avoid the line for the Extraordinary Minister. Fortunately, in my rather small parish, I am almost always able to sit on the side of the church that allows me to wind up in Father’s line.
...only a few boys volunteered....
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I am willing to bet that there would have been more boys interested if it was open to boys only.
I agree with all you said. Good analysis.
In addition, Amanda, a 12-year-old girl is not a woman.
My Cathedral parish has only allowed boys, on some Sundays so many boys were suiting up that the Rector had to put a limit on how many can serve.
Where you make something a uniquely male thing to do you get many more volunteers. The military is finding this out.
My parish has tried to improvel situation by actively recruiting only boys. It doesn’t work. Altar service has been effectively redefined as “women’s work” and boys only serve as their parents make them do it. They quit at the earliest opportunity. That is the problem with women taking administrative positions in the church and “ministries.” Men look at these things now as “women’s work.” Religion is becoming what women do. That will be the hardest of the corruptions of the faux “spirit” of Vatican II to undo.
Our parish has never had altar girls.
With all respect, it is a bad experience for any person to be masquerading as someone of the opposite sex. Which is what altar girls do. I do not impugn their piety and desire for good, but they have been led badly astray.
Great news and thanks to your clergy for obeying the GIRM rules that only call for acolytes.
**I think the rise of girl altar servers and the decrease in vocations are related.**
I totally agree.
I don't. The reformed liturgy has been feminized, and normal boys sense this even if they can't put it in words. They come to believe that "church" is a chick thing -- a hobby for pious girls and pathetic emasculated males wholly unreliable as masculine role models. If they continue to show up and participate, it's as passive outsiders. Female altar servers are a work of the devil. I mean that literally.
Coaching a team is much different than saying a Mass.
Saying a Mass has reverence in it, the Blessed Sacrament in it.
Where is the real analogy?
Great post. The heresy of modernism at work.
I always ask boys about serving Mass. I never approach girls. I will not cause the girls to commit sin by disobeying the laws of the church.
I agree with that but I think it is also just part of the equation. When I was young it was a PRIVILEGE to be an altar boy.
I had a trial period and I was only accepted after I showed that I could do all of the prayers & responses and learn all of the tasks in serving the priests. I think when something is a challenge boys are more eager to be a part of it. If it is something anyone can do, why bother?
Unfortunately, modernism has helped us to adopt this phrase. The actual title is Extraordinary Ministers of Holy Communion. (EHMCs)
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