In my experience, wanting to be addressed by title rather than by name has not been a sign of humility. However, old customs don’t always translate.
I’ve never known a Bishop or Archbishop to object to being called “Father” or “Bishop.” Our retired Bishop, “Bishop Emeritus,” was at my parish recently and was making a fuss over my baby, because she’s the cutest pink thing in the world. “Thank you for your blessing, Bishop!” and he wasn’t looking for more titles.
Worked with enough physicians to agree with you on that one ;) To be fair though I worked with some very down-to-earth ones too.
Our retired Bishop, Bishop Emeritus,...wasnt looking for more titles.
First, congrats on your daughter. What a blessing for you both! The joy of motherhood for you and the privilege of being raised in the Church for her! Second, your experience shows that it isn't really titles that we admire, is it? We respect the way folks carry themselves, not how many letters or titles they carry in front of, in the middle of, or after their names.
Again, congrats!
I suppose Alfred LORD Tennyson would be an good example of it used elsewhere, but it really sounds awkward in most circumstances... imagine Ruth Doctor Westheimer? ;-)