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To: Scooter100; circlecity
"aren’t advised to marry non-Catholics" -- sorry, that is incorrect. And I can say that from experience. We do have pre-marriage counselling as a Must-do and during that, one of the themes is that the partners must understand where the other comes from

Say if a Lutheran married a follower of Benn Hinn -- there is a difference of opinion and of belief. There can be conflict, but doesn't have to be if both partners go into the marriage knowing the differences and accepting it

A cousin of mine married a Hindu and they've been married for 15 years, happily.

Even among Christians -- if a CAtholic marries an Orthodox or a Lutheran, the differences as not as acute as say for a Lutheran to marry a Baptist

I've never heard of any one being advised, once they have decided to marry, against marrying a non-Catholic

All that they are taught during this pre-marital course is "recognize the differences and accept it, or don't get married" -- and it's not only religious differences, but also other topics -- children, money, living with the family etc. -- people should go into marriage KNOWING about the other person and accepting it -- if a Catholic/Lutheran marries say a Baptist, then the Baptist should recognize that the Catholic will go for mass and that the Lutheran believes in the True Presence of Christ in the Eucharist

They don't have to believe it, but accept that their partner does. Otherwise, it is not going to be a successful marriage.

20 posted on 01/18/2013 5:34:28 AM PST by Cronos (Middle English prest, priest, Old English pruost, Late Latin presbyter, Latin presbuteros)
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To: Cronos; circlecity
"Does the Church forbid Catholics to contract marriage with non-Catholics? Yes; the Church does forbid Catholics to contract marriage with non-Catholics."

Taken from:

--"My Catholic Faith - A Manual of Religion" by Most Reverend Louis LaRavoire Morrow, D.D., Section 166 - Church Laws on Marriage (pp 344-352), (All material from "A Catechism of Christian Doctrine, 3rd Revised Edition of the Baltimore Catechism, 1954").

Are you saying that something changed between 1954 and now? Can you please refer to the document or decision that changed this?

47 posted on 01/23/2013 11:27:42 AM PST by Scooter100 ("Now that the fog has lifted, I still can't find my pipe". --- S. Holmes)
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