When We Lose Jesus
Pastors Column
Solemnity of the Holy Family
December 30, 2012
My child, why have you done this to us?
See how worried your father and I have been, looking for you!
(from Luke 2:41-52)
The story of the finding of the child Jesus in the temple resonates with us on many levels, not only because it gives us a brief window on the very human lives of the Holy Family when Jesus was twelve years of age, but also because it helps explain how Jesus acts in our lives as well! The gospel stories are the stories of our lives.
We are all in the family caravan with Jesus, Mary, Joseph and their many relatives and friends as they return from Jerusalem to Nazareth after their Passover pilgrimage. We too are journeying through life, going on our way in this world and suddenly, Jesus seems to have gone! He is nowhere to be found! Do you panic? Will you miss him? The Holy Family searches for Jesus with great anxiety.
Was it my fault that Jesus has gone missing? We cannot help but wonder if we are to blame for this. Certainly the Holy Family must have had similar thoughts as they frantically searched for their lost son. But in fact, this is the normative way God acts in our lives: Jesus is both fully God and fully human, and in his divinity, he will sometimes seem to disappear from our feelings, or will appear to be absent to our calls, precisely so that we will search for him. Even his parents had to learn this lesson, and so do we!
The Holy Family did not know where to look at first. From this we realize that Mary and Joseph were not in constant communication with angels or other mystical experiences, even though they were raising Gods son! We too, do not always find our prayers answered the first time we ask! God makes us wait and search and persevere in our desire to find the Lord and his will for us. We may at times not even know which way to turn, which path or decision Jesus wishes for us, but we know that, in the end, Christ will be there to guide us, as he was for his parents.
Jesus actions were not immediately comprehensible to Mary and Joseph. First they were amazed to find that Jesus could hold his own with the best minds in Judaism, which indicates that he didnt exhibit much of this prior to this incident. Then, it took them a while to grasp Jesus point that while Joseph was a foster-father, Jesus REAL Father was in heaven. Remember, the angels and shepherds were a 12 year old memory by this time! In the same way, Gods actions on our behalf and in our world may not always make sense to us right away. Sometimes the Lord asks us to trust him before he explains everything!
Father Gary