Huh?
But you claim JOSEPH was a 'good man' because he DIDN'T perform his DUTY* to his wife!
Strange logic you have there!!
* 1 Corinthians 7:5
Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Indeed, Wesley was a good and great man. But his calling was not to that of a country vicar, as his fathers had been.
Do you really think that the union of Joseph and Mary fits the situations that Paul has in mind? I am amazed that you can read the scripture and not realize the uniqueness, the seeming impossibillity of it all. Apart from the Resurrrection, nothing is so unlikely as the Virgin Birth.