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FLDS exodus prompts call for 'foster homes'
Fox13 (Salt Lake City) ^ | Dec. 22, 2011 | Ben Winslow

Posted on 12/26/2011 4:04:21 PM PST by Colofornian

Imprisoned polygamist leader Warren Jeffs has reportedly issued an edict to his followers with a deadline -- renew allegiances to the Fundamentalist LDS Church or be excommunicated.

With a Dec. 31 deadline looming, non-profit groups who help those leaving Utah's polygamous communities say an ongoing exodus from the FLDS Church is turning into a "humanitarian crisis," with people walking away with no place to go.

"You've got new control where you have to give everything," James Barlow told FOX 13. "And I mean everything."

Barlow left the FLDS Church last month after refusing to give his allegiance to Jeffs. Barlow, 19, described being called before Jeffs' brother, Lyle, and asked to confess his sins and be re-baptized into the FLDS Church. Tired of the increasing restrictions on people's lives within the church, Barlow left with the clothes on his back.

"I said 'no' and walked out the door," he said. "To come out here and just fall on my head, just not have anything. Nothing... nobody to give me anything, a roof over my head."

He wound up at a home in the Salt Lake City area where his sister, Ruth, has been staying. She left the FLDS Church in September after deciding she no longer believed in the faith under Jeffs.

"I've really enjoyed the family," Ruth Barlow said in an interview with FOX 13. "They've been really good and really fun to be around. It's different than being with my own family, but it's still the same."

The siblings are being "fostered" by the group Holding Out Help, which works with those in Utah's polygamous communities. Since Jeffs went to prison, the group said it has seen a steady stream of people leaving the FLDS Church.

"They leave with absolutely nothing," said Holding Out Help's Tonia Tewell. "The first thing we try to hit is the basic needs: food, clothing and shelter."

Warren Jeffs is serving a life sentence in a Texas prison for child sex assault related to underage marriages. Since he's been imprisoned, he's released a steady stream of "revelations" he claims are from God to lawmakers across the country. They include demands that he be released or the wrath of the Almighty will destroy the earth. The most recent revelations sent to Utah Attorney General Mark Shurtleff claimed they were a "final warning."

Amongst his followers, Jeffs has reportedly made even more demands. Ex-FLDS members tell FOX 13 he has demanded that children give up toys, and adults sell things like ATVs.

"The demands range from coming up with $5,000 at the end of the month to handing over all the food stamps. I've heard they're no longer allowed to have sexual relations with their wives except to have children," Tewell said.

Tewell said she has heard of as many as 50 people a month leaving the polygamous border towns of Hildale, Utah, and Colorado City, Ariz. Some are going to a rival polygamous leader. Others, mostly young adults, are trying to find their way in the world. Holding Out Help and Utah's Safety Net Committee (a coalition of government agencies, social service agencies and polygamists) are trying to find shelter for everyone.

"We need the entire community here in the Salt Lake Valley to step up," said Tewell. "We cannot do this alone any longer."

The Safety Net Committee and Holding Out Help are setting up sort-of "foster homes" across the state. The Safety Net Committee has been holding open houses in St. George, asking people to be willing to open up their homes for children, teenagers, adults or entire families.

"Would I encourage other people to do it? Absolutely. It's been, I think, a blessing to our family," said Kristi Gower, who is hosting the Barlow siblings.

The Safety Net Committee said it would conduct background checks and has a few terms for families willing to foster those from the polygamous communities. More information can be found at holdingouthelp.org or by contacting the Safety Net Committee through Utah's Family Support Center (www.familysupportcenter.org).

James Barlow said with a New Year's Eve deadline coming, more people will likely be leaving.

"Family means everything to most of us from there," he said. "I know, to everybody I know, it means everything. That's why a lot of people haven't left. But you have to the end of the year and you're excommunicated."


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To: restornu
However, modern readers also judge the age of the marriage partners by modern standards, rather than the standards of the nineteenth century.


 

Polygamy: How it all got Started


 
 
 
Joe: Hey Emma!   Guess what!?
 
Emma: You KNOW I hate these guessing games! What is it, Dear?
 
Joe: I heard a voice, probably the Lord, tell me I must take other wives.
 
Emma: WHAT!?   You ding bat!  Don't you KNOW what our precious BOOK says?   After all; YOU are the one that translated it!
 
Joe: Books; schmooks.   All I know is I've been COMMANDED to take other wives and you are to OBEY ME!!!
 
 
Emma:      "Though shalt NOT commit ADULTERY!!!"
 
 
Joe: Silly Woman!  You KNOW better than to take things out of CONTEXT!!!
 
 
 
 
 

 
...and the rest is HISTORY...
 

 
 
 
 
 
THE BOOK OF JACOB
THE BROTHER OF NEPHI
CHAPTER 2
 
  24 Behold, David and Solomon truly had many wives and concubines, which thing was abominable before me, saith the Lord.
  25 Wherefore, thus saith the Lord, I have led this people forth out of the land of Jerusalem, by the power of mine arm, that I might raise up unto me a righteous branch from the fruit of the loins of Joseph.
  26 Wherefore, I the Lord God will not suffer that this people shall do like unto them of old.
  27 Wherefore, my brethren, hear me, and hearken to the word of the Lord: For there shall not any man among you have save it be one wife; and concubines he shall have none;
  28 For I, the Lord God, delight in the chastity of women. And whoredoms are an abomination before me; thus saith the Lord of Hosts.
  29 Wherefore, this people shall keep my commandments, saith the Lord of Hosts, or cursed be the land for their sakes.
  30 For if I will, saith the Lord of Hosts, raise up seed unto me, I will command my people; otherwise they shall hearken unto these things.
  31 For behold, I, the Lord, have seen the sorrow, and heard the mourning of the daughters of my people in the land of Jerusalem, yea, and in all the lands of my people, because of the wickedness and abominations of their husbands.
  32 And I will not suffer, saith the Lord of Hosts, that the cries of the fair daughters of this people, which I have led out of the land of Jerusalem, shall come up unto me against the men of my people, saith the Lord of Hosts.
 

Or even HERE:
 

 1 Timothy 3:2-3
 2.  Now the overseer must be above reproach, the husband of but one wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,
 3.  not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money.
 
 
1 Timothy 3:12
   A deacon must be the husband of but one wife and must manage his children and his household well.
 
 
 Titus 1:6
   An elder must be blameless, the husband of but one wife, a man whose children believe and are not open to the charge of being wild and disobedient.



 
 
Emma: That's IT!   I'm LEAVING your sorry *!!!
 
Joe:  DARN you Emma; you were TOLD to accept this!!   Wait!!!   I hear a voice again!!!
 
 


 
THE
DOCTRINE AND COVENANTS
OF THE CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS
SECTION 132
 
  51–57, Emma Smith is counseled (commanded) to be faithful and true; 58–66, Laws governing the plurality of wives are set forth.
 
 
  51 Verily, I say unto you: A commandment I give unto mine handmaid, Emma Smith, your wife, whom I have given unto you, that she stay herself and partake not of that which I commanded you to offer unto her; for I did it, saith the Lord, to aprove you all, as I did Abraham, and that I might require an offering at your hand, by covenant and sacrifice.
  52 And let mine handmaid, Emma Smith, areceive all those that have been given unto my servant Joseph, and who are virtuous and pure before me; and those who are not pure, and have said they were pure, shall be destroyed, saith the Lord God.
  53 For I am the Lord thy God, and ye shall obey my voice; and I give unto my servant Joseph that he shall be made ruler over many things; for he hath been afaithful over a few things, and from henceforth I will strengthen him.
  54 And I command mine handmaid, Emma Smith, to abide and acleave unto my servant Joseph, and to none else. But if she will not abide this commandment she shall be bdestroyed, saith the Lord; for I am the Lord thy God, and will destroy her if she abide not in my law.
  55 But if she will not abide this commandment, then shall my servant Joseph do all things for her, even as he hath said; and I will bless him and multiply him and give unto him an ahundredfold in this world, of fathers and mothers, brothers and sisters, houses and lands, wives and children, and crowns of beternal lives in the eternal worlds.
  56 And again, verily I say, let mine handmaid aforgive my servant Joseph his trespasses; and then shall she be forgiven her trespasses, wherein she has trespassed against me; and I, the Lord thy God, will bless her, and multiply her, and make her heart to brejoice.


121 posted on 12/28/2011 8:45:54 AM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going)
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To: restornu

Resty; you are STILL ignoring what your leaders have said..

WHY?


122 posted on 12/28/2011 8:46:44 AM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going)
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To: greyfoxx39
OK...let's see you tie polygamy being a requirement for salvation to "Historical and cultural perspective"!

Like THIS???


"Now if any of you will deny the plurality of wives, and continue to do so, I promise that you will be damned;

and I will go still further and say, take this revelation, or any other revelation that the Lord has given,

and deny it in your feelings, and I promise that you will be damned.

Brigham Young - JoD 3:266 (July 14, 1855)

123 posted on 12/28/2011 8:48:01 AM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going)
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To: dragonblustar
( You might want to read this part Resty...)

Still the Eternal Optimist I see...


There's GOT to be a pony in here somewhere!

124 posted on 12/28/2011 8:52:35 AM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going)
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To: restornu

LMAO at your use of “kick against the prick” when discussing JS’s perverted sex life.

Always appreciate a good sense of humor!


125 posted on 12/28/2011 8:58:08 AM PST by bonfire
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To: Godzilla
 
Cleansing of lds history - not surprising.
 

Office of First President & Living Prophet®:

December 26st, 2011

Heads up; MORMON faithful -

Here at Headquarters we have undertaken a neoalignment of all of our NON-scriptural writings on our websites.  Some of your old links may not work as things get rearranged and/or removed.
 
Please be alert to any changes that YOU need to make when referencing OFFICIAL church websites.
 
Tommy 
 (sorry for the slight inconvience.)

 
 

126 posted on 12/28/2011 8:59:42 AM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going)
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To: Elsie

This Is the Place. (to coin a unique phrase)

127 posted on 12/28/2011 9:12:41 AM PST by Utah Binger (Southern Utah where the world comes to see America)
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To: Utah Binger
Mormon Archeology...  http://mormonsites.org/
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

128 posted on 12/28/2011 9:20:46 AM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going)
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Place marker


129 posted on 12/28/2011 9:21:29 AM PST by svcw (God's Grace - thank you)
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To: dragonblustar

Especially since he admitted on another thread to being on LDS records for 50+ years.


130 posted on 12/28/2011 9:21:29 AM PST by reaganaut (Ex-Mormon, now Christian "I once was lost but now am found, was blind but now I see".)
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To: restornu

Resty,
The day will come when you will stand before the real Jesus Christ.
What will you say?????

“Oh, I worshipped a created Christ!”
“Oh, I would have worshiped you, but I had feelings”
“The Holy Ghost made me do it!”
“Oh, I lived a worthy life on my own!”
“Oh, I was so busy protecting the lies of mormonism that I didn’t listen when I was warned.”

Won’t cut it.


131 posted on 12/28/2011 10:26:50 AM PST by aMorePerfectUnion (You know, 99.99999965% of the lawyers give all of them a bad name)
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To: aMorePerfectUnion

If we could live a worthy life on our own, there would have been no need for the Cross.


132 posted on 12/28/2011 10:36:01 AM PST by svcw (God's Grace - thank you)
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To: Scoutmaster
Thanks, all. I've been informed that you may access The History of the Church through Brigham Young University. I'm going to download my copy.

I'm glad it exists.

It's still the case that it's been removed from the LDS website.

Makes you wonder whether the webmaster at BYU will be receiving a memo.

133 posted on 12/28/2011 11:09:28 AM PST by Scoutmaster (You knew the job was dangerous when you took it)
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To: restornu
Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but they are not entitled to their own facts

Respectfully, on another thread you continue to insist that only one gun was present in the hands of the LDS members in the Carthage Jail. I've given you the quotes and links to the LDS History of the Church. The LDS History of the Church says two guns (more than once).

Here's what the LDS Church Educational System says (with photos of the two guns); read the fourth paragraph:

Here's the photo from www.fairlods.org, showing the two guns and telling where they are now:

A different part of History of the Church, Vol. 6, Chapters, 33-34, pages 602-622 picks up after Joseph Smith’s secretary, John S. Fulmer has just made his last visit to Smith in the Carthage jail:

”9:40 a.m. … [W]heelock prepared to visit the prison. The morning being a little rainy, favored his wearing an overcoat, in the side pocket of which he was enabled to carry a six shooter, and he passed the guard unmolested. During his visit in the prison he slipped the revolver into Joseph's pocket. Joseph examined it, and asked Wheelock if he had not better retain it for his own protection.
This was a providential circumstance, as most other persons had been very rigidly searched. Joseph then handed the single barrel pistol which had been given him by John S. Fullmer, to his brother Hyrum, and said, "You may have use for this." Brother Hyrum observed, "I hate to use such things or to see them used." "So do I," said Joseph, "but we may have to, to defend ourselves;" upon this Hyrum took the pistol.

A six-shooter and a single-barrel. Two guns.

And Chapter 35 makes it clear both Hyrum and Joseph had guns, and both pulled the trigger of their respective guns:

”5:00 p.m. … Hyrum was retreating back in front of the door and snapped his pistol, when a ball struck him in the left side of his nose, and he fell on his back on the floor saying, "I am a dead man!" As he fell on the floor another ball from the outside entered his left side, and passed through his body with such force that it completely broke to pieces the watch he wore in his vest pocket, and at the same instant another ball from the door grazed his breast, and entered his head by the throat; subsequently a fourth ball entered his left leg.

A shower of balls was pouring through all parts of the room, many of which lodged in the ceiling just above the head of Hyrum.

Joseph reached round the door casing, and discharged is six shooter into the passage, some barrels missing fire.

Resornu, it's clear there were two guns. LDS Elders Cyrus Wheelock and John Fullmer each smuggled on in. Joseph and Hyrum Smith each had one. These photos and sources are all LDS sources.

Yet you insist there was only one gun and then say people are not entitled to their own facts?

I'm missing something.

134 posted on 12/28/2011 11:25:46 AM PST by Scoutmaster (You knew the job was dangerous when you took it)
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To: reaganaut
Despite the fact that according to them, I have been a Mormon for 50 F#$%ing years.

Seriously people. Get it right. I stopped going to their church when I was 11. So they still have me down as a member. But that is them, not me. They way they do things, I'll bet they still count Reaganaut as a member. I don't know how it works with excommunication. The way they do things I bet you could get excommunicated and still be counted as a member. Did you get excommunicated Reaganaut? Cause if not, you are still a Mormon. Even then...

135 posted on 12/28/2011 11:40:41 AM PST by bigheadfred
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To: Scoutmaster
I'm missing something.

Maybe after doing that much research the only thing you've missed are lots of meals. :-)

136 posted on 12/28/2011 11:45:16 AM PST by bigheadfred
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To: bigheadfred
Maybe after doing that much research the only thing you've missed are lots of meals.

Now that we've bonded, I appreciate you looking after me. But I could stand to use a few meals and I get feisty when somebody accuses me of not living the Scout Oath, or of poisoning the water, when all I did was state some facts. Nothing theological. Just facts. And the whole denying facts bit combined with a personal slur (and then disappearing) appears to be a pretty common ploy.

It gets annoying.

I'm just glad I didn't ask a question this time.


137 posted on 12/28/2011 11:57:19 AM PST by Scoutmaster (You knew the job was dangerous when you took it)
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To: reaganaut
Especially since he admitted on another thread to being on LDS records for 50+ years.

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Must have been Earth Kolob shattering to find out he won't be get'n those celestial banshees to breed with for eternity......

138 posted on 12/28/2011 12:01:08 PM PST by dragonblustar (Allah Ain't So Akbar!)
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To: Scoutmaster
I'm missing something.

Well; it ain't BRAINS!

139 posted on 12/28/2011 1:50:26 PM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going)
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To: Scoutmaster
I'm missing something.

Well; it ain't BRAINS!

140 posted on 12/28/2011 1:51:00 PM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going)
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