I'm glad to hear that, brother in Christ. I am grateful that most of our Calvinist brethren reject the hyper-Calvinism view of the "elect" as a few
The problem has been that the vocal posters on FR's RF have been the hyper-Calvinists, so unfortunately most non-Calvinists see only them as representative of Calvinism
Yes, I ask my (hyper) Calvinist friends and associates, if they truly accept election as the sole basis for salvation, why then do they also send out or support missionaries.
With their claim of "the elect" extending to sole inheritors of salvation, certainly conflicts with their support of missions.