I understand your problem, Theo. It is tough when you're in over your head.
Hint: study up on transubstantiation.
Perfect!!
So, “Jesus is a wafer.”
It is true that the Son of God was incarnated as a man. But He was never further incarnated into a wafer.
And, no, “Jesus is a wafer” is not transubstantiation. Transubstantiation speaks of the “Real Presence” of Christ in the bread. I don’t know any Roman Catholic scholars who would summarize that as, “Jesus is a wafer.”